This is going to be long, but it's going to (hopefully) stop you from going to one of the worst clubs ever. I have been to a few other clubs and know what to expect from a place like this. Let's take it from the beginning. I get there and I think it's strange that they don't ask for my phone so they can lock it up. They have done that at other clubs I've been at and I think it's a really good thing to do to make people more comfortable. But okay, it's nothing that I thought any more about in that moment. They also didn't give me a tour around the place.
From the beginning there's this guy talking to me, touching me inappropriately and even following me around when I'm not showing any interest back. I eventually have to spell out that I'm not interested, but he still doesn't get it. Later I hear that he has been behaving the same way with a few other women, so I tell a man that's working there and all he says is "I can't kick him out, he paid." I was shocked! So I kept telling him that he had to do something, that I felt uncomfortable and that this is not acceptable behavior in line with the rules on their website. And he says he can't do anything because he can't go away from his booth. I keep nagging and eventually he says I can tell the bartenders and they could give him a warning. The bartender seemed to be very nonchalant about it too. Not sure what happened after that.
The night I was there there was not supposed to be any single men allowed, only couples and single women. It said that clearly on club paradise's website and on the event page. And I liked that. It's a very different dynamic when there's lots of guys. And there was an overwhelming amount of single men there. Would have been more okay if they were well-behaved, but they were all aggressive creeps. So I asked a woman working there about it. She also had a very poor attitude, didn't apologize or anything for the wrong info and said that no one was coming so they had to let the men in.
I was in a private playroom with someone and we locked the door. Throughout the time we were there, several men kept knocking aggressively on the door and getting close to the glass doors so they could peek in. When we got out they were just hanging out outside the room as if they were waiting for us to open. This club and their employees apparantly let's people behave in whichever way they want without any consequences. The rules on consent, respect etc. on their website are only there to look pretty. read more