We have been so happy with Brookdale Senior Living in Murrieta. I was searching for an assisted living facility for my father-in-law, who had been living independently until he began needing more day to day assistance in early spring of this year. My father in law was alternately eager, then resistant about a move, depending on his energy level. He agreed to take a tour, but then said he wouldn't an hour before our appointment. I insisted he at least SEE Brookdale so he could make up his own mind. Their residential rental director, Jimena, met us, and was such a considerate and caring individual who gently guided my father in law through the facility, that he was ready to make the decision to move the same day. Absolutely no type of hard sell or pressure, just calm answers and real kindness were shown. Prices were upfront, along with prices for possible extra services in the future (bathing assistance, meal deliveries to the room, medication management, etc). It was nice having all that information in printed form, too. He chose a
one bedroom apartment which came with a kitchenette.
We subsequently met reception staff, among whom Raquel and Carol were our very favorites. The nursing staff also proved to be superb (I myself am an RN) as my father in law proved more ill than we knew. As his health declined, the RN director, Queen was always there for us, the family. Her communication and actual physical presence gave my father in law such reassurance, and gave us the medical realities that were ahead for both he and us, the family. Nurses Ana, Alison and Evelyn all went above and beyond their duties for my father in law. I know of several instances where Queen stayed late just to chat as she saw my husband and I leaving from a visit. It seemed like nurse Ana would often catch me crying after a visit, and made a point to be extra kind to me. You can't pay someone to pretend to care, she actually showed it day after day.
The aides at Brookdale were the most gentle and sweet individuals. They helped my father in laws mood improve so much with gentle ministrations, rubbing lotion on his back and eventually assisting with showers.
The last month of his life he had meal trays delivered to his room, and the kitchen staff were also respectful and worked hard to help him choose food he liked.
I think a great testament to the type of staff working at Brookdale is that Zoe, a Brookdale employee, came to my father in laws funeral on her day off, and spoke with tears about how she was honored to help care for him.
My own mother is an an assisted living apartment which both my husband and I think is maybe half as good as Brookdale. My only wish for the Brookdale facility is that the front doors and entry and staircase carpet are worn and need some updating. But the people working there? Stellar! read more