I rarely leave negative reviews, but parents deserve to know about our experience.
We entrusted British Private Prep School with the care and safety of our children and were ultimately forced to withdraw them because we lost confidence in the school's ability to adequately address serious safety concerns.
Our daughter disclosed an incident involving inappropriate touching by another student. When we brought the matter to the school's attention, we expected an immediate and thorough investigation. Instead, more than a week passed with little meaningful action, despite multiple follow-up emails from us requesting answers.
By the time the school began looking into the matter, we were informed that any potentially relevant video footage had already been deleted because the camera system only retains recordings for approximately one week. We were then told that, without video evidence, the school was relying on the accounts of staff members rather than our daughter's disclosure.
What has been most heartbreaking is the impact this has had on our daughter. Prior to this incident, she loved attending school. Since disclosing what happened, she has expressed that she feels uncomfortable and does not want to return. As parents, watching that change has been devastating.
We understand that schools cannot prevent every incident that may occur between children. However, we believe parents have a right to expect prompt communication, timely investigations, preservation of available evidence, and a response that takes a child's concerns seriously.
Every parent must make their own decision, but based on our experience, we felt it was necessary to immediately withdraw our children from the school for their well-being and peace of mind.
We hope the school takes this opportunity to review its procedures regarding incident reporting, investigations, parent communication, and video retention so that no other family has to experience what ours has gone through.
EDIT TO ADD:
After everything that happened, I later learned that the director was no longer at the school, approximately a month or two after I reported our situation to the state. The school was also fined following the state's involvement.
Because our primary concern throughout this entire situation was how the director handled what happened to our daughter, I reached back out to the school after learning she was no longer there to see if our boys could possibly return.
The school had us bring our son in, tested him for placement into the Bridge Program, introduced him to his teachers, and allowed him to get excited about returning to a school he had previously loved. Then, later that SAME DAY, we received an email stating that because of the situation involving our daughter a few months prior, they felt it was best that our family not return.
As a parent, this was incredibly upsetting. We advocated for our daughter when she told us she had been touched inappropriately, reported our concerns through the appropriate channels, and now our other children are being denied the opportunity to return because of that same situation. From our perspective, it feels like our family is being punished for advocating for our daughter and demanding that what happened to her be taken seriously. The way everything has been handled has also left me with serious concerns about what the school is trying to avoid or distance itself from.
Even more concerning, after I made an anonymous Facebook post discussing our experience with the school, several people responded with concerning stories of their own. One anonymous commenter stated that her husband is a police officer and had been called to this same school a couple of years ago for a very similar situation. I cannot personally verify the details of that incident, so I want to be clear that I am sharing what was reported to me, not presenting it as something I witnessed firsthand.
At this point, there have simply been too many red flags for me to stay quiet. I strongly encourage parents considering this school to do their own research, ask difficult questions about how incidents involving children are documented, investigated, and communicated to parents, and think very carefully before deciding whether this is where they want to send their children. read more