http://www.hamptons.com/
I had the luxury of staying at someone's estate who has a beach home in Bridge Hampton. First of all if you don't have a home there don't kid yourself the residents of the Hamptons don't want you there.
She told me she goes there to network. She is an actress and her husband is a mover and a shaker in business. As the Hampton town beaches go I thought Bridge Hampton was more down to earth. She is one of the few Hamptons residents who is open and friendly and not stuck up in my opinion. She is a lovely woman with great taste.
We went to the beach club. http://thebtsc.com/
The food at the beach club is average at best.
She was pointing out celebrities to me. It is mostly the same celebrities you see in the city. http://thebtsc.com/
Here is a list of the beaches in Bridge Hampton. http://beaches.uptake.com/new_york/bridgehampton/321619758.html
Her home and property are beautiful! But I can't post pictures of it. So I just found a picture of the beach when deserted but it is often crowded. Not like a city beach of course but still maybe the most crowded of the Hampton beaches. I think it might be the most fun beach in the Hamptons.
In my opinion Montauk has a more down to earth beachy feel. Though it is rocky. This actress that I know who owns a home here flat out told me the Hamptons is for networking. So if that is your thing and you are a wealthy successful actor then this is your beach. But if you are a surfer or beach person I don't think it has what you are looking for. read more