I had been avoiding buying my wedding dress for months (six to be exact, and my wedding is in eight months!) because I kept saying I would go when I lost weight..that didn't happen (I've been too busy enjoying our engagement, haha!) .. Anyway, I scoured the Internet hoping that I would find a dress that looked like it would look great on me.. I googled "plus sized bridal gowns", "full figure wedding dress", "what wedding dress looks best on plus sized brides"... you name it, I googled it, just as I'm sure most full figured ladies do! I knew buying a dress online was not very smart, but I had a very small (basically unheard of small for buying brand new) budget, and I am a big girl! Blazin, but big! I didn't like any of the Davids Bridal dresses in my budget and my size, they were too plain, plus the "plus sized" models had amazing bodies and could only be considered plus sized to a size zero ... so it wasn't accurate to me. I started to get frustrated so I decided to see if there were any plus sized bridal boutiques in New England. I hadn't heard of any, and seeing as how everybody and their mother were giving me advice as to where I should shop, I thought I would have known about one by now! I googled "plus sized wedding gown new England" and Botticelli popped up. I went to the link and read all about the store, Jan (the owner), and the story of how her store came to be. I immediately could relate to her and knew that this is the kind of woman I would love to help me find my gown, so I emailed her and she promptly emailed me back setting up a time for me to come in. She was professional yet down to earth and I was so excited!
The day came to dress shop and three of my best friends and I drove up to Botticelli. Jan had asked me prior if I had any idea of what I was looking for, my size and my price range. I had no idea what I wanted (due to only seeing regular models in "plus sized gowns", I didn't know what Id look good in!), I told her my little budget and my size. She had a few dresses waiting for me which was shocking that she had any with that criteria, but she IS amazing! I am a goofy lady and Jan immediately recognized and accepted my goofiness and joined in on the fun with my friends and I while she sat down to ask me a few more preliminary questions. That was quick and painless.. time to try on some dresses! She led me to the dressing room and I started to get nervous, I haven't felt amazingly beautiful and comfortable in a dress in years, I knew this wouldn't be any different - it wasn't possible! Jan quickly eased my worries explaining how her gowns are literally designed and made for bigger woman, they hold your "girls" in the right place without them pouring out on to the floor, they are cut in a way that there is no back fat hanging and the shape of the gown will compliment my figure. I thought yea OK, thanks for letting me know this, totally not be living her. But, I was wrong, she was right! She helped me put on my first gown, and I magically lost 30 pounds! I looked sleek, thin, and very beautiful. She put the veil on for me so I could get the full effect, and I loved how I looked, but it wasn't me... I really could have called it a day with that dress though, bought it and gone home... because even though it wasn't totally "me", It obviously wasn't possible to find a dress that looked any better on me! Right? Wrong again! Jan pulled the next dress, it was a little too plain for me. and I immediately was ready to see what she had next.. She had me step into this dress that I thought hmmm.. this is different looking? As she laced up the corset top, I looked down and wondered, is this it?! This dress is amazing! I walked out and my friends all gasped. I stepped on to the platform and I gasped too! It was perfect! Jan informed me that this is the one she had in mind for me all along.. but I think she wanted me to try a few on first just to really feel me out. The dress is timeless. I really don't know all of the wedding dress jargon (haha, sorry!) but it had a corset top with beading under the bust, then starts the lace for my torso... then as the dress flows out (its a mermaid style, I didn't know mermaid style was possible for me!) the lace flowers spread out to a flowy skirt with about a 4 foot train. Jan did her job, and did her job well. She made me feel so important and so beautiful. Her staff was so kind too and all told me how great I looked.. and they weren't just saying it to say it because their boss was standing there. She really just has very friendly and real woman on her staff! I highly recommend making the trip to Jan's boutique!! I pretty much grantee that you will be just as happy as I am, and I am THRILLED! Did I mention that I hate shopping? She made the process quick, painless and enjoyable. I walked out of there with a smile, my gown and armed with business cards because I feel like every woman (especially us curvy ladies!) deserves to feel that way! read more