Ty and Helen; 17 months ago I loaned your daughter 55000 $ to purportedly pay for Wills' "special schooL for autistic children " tuition, which accrording to your daughter, you both refused to pay for at that time citing instead that her ex- Rick, should be paying for his tuition..Our agreemnt for that loan was that Marie would repay me within 90 days, when she could manipulate her finances. Ater about 6 months and after watching Marie pocket multiple gambling winnings of 22K, 17K and a few miscellaneous thousands here and there, the excessive drinking and the use of perscription meds, I became aware that something was very wrong... our relationship was struggling and were were at odds constantly. I reached out to you both and left a message (which I was later told was recorded and forwarded to your family lawyer). I then called and spoke with you for some help regarding Marie, her erractic behaviour and this personal loan issue, whereupon, you, Helen told me to never call again and I was hung up on. Not exactly what I expected... but MAYBE UNDERSTANDABLE GIVEN THE MISINFORMATION THAT I KNOW MARIE HAS BEEN SPREADING AROUND- MAYBE NOT. But the facts remain, Marie hurt herself, then managed to project those injuries unto me, as if I was responsible for her knee, her face bruising, that is a 100% fabrication. Marie was out of surgery only a few months when she elected to undergo voluntary cosmetic surgery for her face and eyes, so she seemed to have had planty of excess funds; it did result in a lot of bruising and swelling. As our personal relationship continued to fall apart her actions and words to others about me, my life ,my actions continued to become more and more reprehensible, slanderous and demeaning...After one of many particular arguments, She became angry and vindiuctive again, blamed me for these physical problems (eventually to you both and others) for her personal injuries which resulted from yet another evening when she was driving shitfaced drunk, after leaving my home, after an arugumen; and after I pleaded with her not to drive and sleep it off. She crashed her rental car into some sort of barrier or similar, destroying the front clip, fenders undercarriage, activating all of the airbags which injured her leg, cut her hand and bruised her cheek and face, and broke her tooth, (all this according to Marie). She drove the badly damaged car back to my home, whereupon I brought it inside my property out of sight; the police came shortly after due to a concerned citizen that had followed her to my home at about 1:00 a.m,. Marie was blackout drunk, hysterical, out of control and again blaming me for her misfortunes; she actually kept forgetting that she had even been in a wreck.. I calmed her down, put her to bed and the next day she had little to no memory of the ENTIRE situation... IN FACT she could not find the site where she had wrecked the car and wasnt even sure of the general location. I believe that her use of perscription sedatives/drugs and a lot of alcohol is a key factor here AND in several other irrational and overly emotional instances; 3 of which I had to request my son McCray to come to my house and remain as a witness to her behaviour(s) as it was both threatening, with derranged taking of suicide amongst other things, if I would not agree to "just hug hold and love her" as she kept inisisting. When I didn't, she became frustrated angry and turned to insulting me and shouting that I was using child porn,cheating on her, and only interested in masturbation, not to mention the MANY vile accusations( she shouted standing in my driveway while nieghbors gawked)...about my daughter, her college friends and myself... its all quite sickening, that said, sadly it was not the first time or the last; for my entire family knows that it was marie who dumped my latewifes ashes out into the desert, and refilled the urn with beach sand from my yard...additionally even my own mother can testify to hearing all of the same vile sick accusations and the like when we got into a argument on my mom's birthday in Minnesota.
I think its fair to say that we BOTH - you and myself- know that Marie has had a very troubled past, especially since her incarceraton into the minimum security prison after being being deemed unfit to care for her child, Will at age 5. Marie has also explained to me her dependence/reliance on Frank, your psychologist nieghbor who treats Marie on a regualr basis, providing her with prescription depressants/ anti-depressants/ pain killers and the rest... for several years now... These current physical/mental problems and these other "manisfestations" are NOT my doing.
I no longer will have any part in her or your lives, God willing, however we had an agreement and Marie is not holding her end of it up. 55k is a very serious amount of money to me, it was alloted for my daughters college tution, now its gone.... Is this acceptable in your eyes? despite read more