I've been coming to EV for a few years off and on now - There's coffee served, and great worship music. Every seat is the best seat in the house, as the acoustics are extremely well-designed.
2 weeks ago I attended a service that changed the way I view women - Ed Harrell gave a sermon that describes Christianity in terms both the church and "world" can understand - as men and women completing the image of who "He" is.
So to the extent that many women feel objectified - it is somewhat unfounded since they help us men reduce blind spots, and in the Old Testament (Deborah in the book of Judges) use their powers to judge, prophetize, and lead. Ed doesn't leave biblical references out and also helps regular people grasp how God's limitless giving works through women throughout the Bible and in our lives.
I believe that women that attended that service were enabled to feel freedom to use the talents God gives them as well as reduce feelings of bondage in a world dominated by men, such as in other religions.
So as to answer my confusion - "Who's the leader of the Christian household?" Ed left us with this: Ask ourselves these questions "how can we better encourage women to use their gift. Who is responsible to make sure they can speak out and not feel limited?"
I risk sounding cliche, but when you leave with more questions than answers to an ongoing debate of mens' role in relationships you know you've been in the dark :) Hope to see more Yelpers here in the future. read more