I had the most wonderful experience with Abundant Beginnings Co. (ABC Surrogacy).
When I first began exploring surrogacy, I applied with a large agency and was immediately auto-rejected because I was still breastfeeding my daughter--even though I was actively weaning. The rejection email was clearly a template and even started with "Dear [NAME]." That moment made it very clear to me that I didn't want to be just a name in someone's system.
In 2015, ABC was buried on the fourth page of Google results, but I truly believe you know when you've found the right agency--and I knew right away. I was drawn to their boutique approach, the fact that they were women-owned and California-based, and especially that one of the owners was an intended parent herself. That meant something to me. If an IP was willing to dedicate her life to this work, I knew it came from a place of deep passion and understanding.
I applied and received a call from Stacie the very next day. She reviewed my history, reassured me that weaning was not a problem, and simply explained that I'd need to be fully weaned before moving forward. Every fear and question I had--especially the hard ones--was answered thoughtfully and without judgment. I never once felt silly or dismissed. Stacie handled everything with such grace and confidence, and I remember being incredibly impressed.
My journey moved quickly, which I know isn't always typical, so I want to be clear that every surrogacy journey is different. I applied in March 2015, Matched in May 2015 and had my transfer in November 2015. Nicole, one of the owners (who has two children via surrogacy), was my case manager. I experienced several complications throughout my pregnancy, and the care she provided was extraordinary. I never felt that my intended parents were prioritized over me--but when I worried about them, Nicole helped me understand their perspective with empathy and insight.
Thankfully, everything turned out well, and that baby is turning 11 this year. I went on to complete two more journeys with ABC. They stood by me every step of the way, including during an incredibly difficult missed miscarriage on my third journey, and cared for me with compassion and respect during one of the hardest moments of my life.
ABC's professionalism, kindness, and thoughtfulness truly set them apart. They could have grown into something massive, but they've intentionally stayed boutique to medium-sized, never straying from their mission or values.
I would recommend ABC Surrogacy to anyone looking for a hands-on, deeply personal approach. And if you prefer a more hands-off experience, they are equally respectful of that--you simply tell them what you need. These women are truly wonderful. I love them, and I trust them with my life. read more