I want to share my experience with Abbey Delray North's skilled nursing facility, where my father has been staying for five weeks. From the moment he arrived, it was clear that the facility struggles with serious staffing, communication, and equipment issues.
When my father was admitted, he was simply placed in a room by a transporter with no information, no orientation. I had to track down the administrator myself just to get a welcome booklet. We quickly realized that the facility is severely understaffed and poorly equipped.
The furniture in the patient rooms is old and worn out. Some rooms have donated smart TVs, while others have older models, creating a hodgepodge of mismatched furnishings. Each room has two beds and two TVs, but the beds lack speakers like those in hospitals, so every room becomes a battle of dueling, blaring televisions. The entire facility is loud: doors are left open, people are talking in the hallways, TVs blare from every room, and demented or delirious patients scream from their beds. There is simply no way to get recuperative sleep in that environment.
Another major issue was medication timing. My father's morning pills were usually given to him around noon, and his evening pills were administered around 6 p.m. Twice-a-day medication should be spaced 12 hours apart, not just six. This kind of scheduling error is concerning and reflects poor coordination in patient care.
The most helpful staff members were the front desk employees, Veronica and Esther. They were the only people I could reach by phone, sometimes, once I flew home.
My father did receive physical and occupational therapy 30 minutes each, five times a week, but the lack of communication meant I never knew the schedule.
The most troubling issue was the severe shortage of aides. After my father's first week, I had to return home to another state. I mentioned this to his wonderful nurse, Isabelle, and her response was: "Oh no. Who will take care of your father?". I told her we were considering hiring a private aide, and she said, "That is a very good idea." Even the staff knows there aren't enough aides.
Because of this shortage, my father, who is not incontinent, was put in diapers not for medical reasons, but because there simply weren't enough aides to help him to the bathroom. When my dad got fed up waiting for help, he would get up on his own, climb into his wheelchair, and walk himself to the toilet. He fell twice trying to do this. No patient should be forced to put themselves at risk just to maintain their dignity.
On one occasion, my father had an accident, and I was desperately trying to find an aide to help me. After searching with no success, I had to clean his poop off the floor myself. When an aide finally arrived to assist him, she helped my father but didn't have time to clean the rest of the mess. Since the bathroom was shared with his roommate, I ended up cleaning the toilet seat and surrounding area myself. No family member should ever be put in that position in a skilled nursing facility.
To make matters worse, in the five weeks my father was there, he never had a proper shower. I noticed a binder at the nurses station labeled "Shower" and asked about it. I was told he could sign up for one. However, no one ever informed us of this process, and he was only sponge-bathed the entire time. Basic hygiene should not require a sign-up system that families have to figure out on their own.
Food is another issue. If you don't want to drink water, they have small cans of soda in the kitchen area but if you aren't mobile, you can't get a drink. The food is delivered cold if you aren't able to make it to the dinning area.
Laundry service was another disappointment. I was told his clothes would be cleaned twice a week, but in the first week, no one even picked them up. Instead, he received a bag of freshly laundered clothes belonging to another patient. I brought it to Veronica, who took care of returning it to the rightful owner.
On more than one occasion, as I walked through the halls, patients sitting in wheelchairs stopped me to ask for help just to get back to their rooms. This was heartbreaking and further proof of the extreme understaffing. No patient should be left stranded in a hallway, waiting on a staff member who may never come.
Overall, Abbey Delray North's skilled nursing facility is plagued by staffing shortages, poor communication, outdated furnishings, and inadequate patient care. While a few individuals like Veronica, Esther, and Isabelle were kind and helpful, the overall experience was frustrating and disappointing. read more