My experience at this school was extremely negative, and it has stayed with me long after leaving…read more From a young age, I felt the school emphasized conformity, obedience, and appearances. Around age 10, I was dress-coded for wearing the same clothes as other girls my age. Because my body was more developed, I was treated differently. This was one of my first experiences feeling sexualized, and I was confused about why my body was treated as a problem. As I got older, the dress code became increasingly strict and focused heavily on girls. I felt women were held to a different standard than young men. The treatment of young women was one of the biggest reasons I struggled there. Instead of being encouraged to explore our interests, strengths, and identities, we were taught how to dress, behave, and make ourselves less distracting to men. I often felt I was being taught to conform to men rather than discover who I was. I also struggled academically and received little to no support. I was diagnosed with ADHD later in elementary school. I spent hours after school completing work and needed multiple tutors because I could not retain material at the expected pace. I often felt the focus was more on academic numbers than supporting struggling students. Another concern was the religious environment. I respect families who choose Christian education, but in my experience, the school went beyond teaching Christianity and created an environment where certain beliefs were presented as superior and certain lifestyles or beliefs were portrayed as wrong or deserving of eternal punishment. Bible classes were required, and religious teachings were part of everyday life. I often felt forced into an identity and belief system before having the opportunity to figure out who I was. I also witnessed inconsistencies between the school's values and how situations were handled. There were also issues with inclusivity involving race, culture, background, and social class. Coming from a different background could be isolating. If you are considering this school, know there can be a disconnect between its public image and the student experience. From the outside, it can appear polished and wholesome. My experience was very different. I experienced an environment that felt hypocritical, rigid, judgmental, and restrictive toward young women. Students deserve to feel safe, respected, supported, and allowed to develop their identities. I don't want another to feel how I did for years.
