We moved our son to The Children's School in fifth grade with some trepidation. Changing schools at…read morethat age felt like a big leap, especially when it meant adding a not-so-short commute from Chicago's north side. But we have been grateful for that decision time and time again.
One of the first things that struck us was how often he spontaneously commented on the kindness and welcoming nature of the other students, and how much the teachers genuinely listen to kids. These weren't responses to parental questions--they were unprompted observations from a 10-year-old! He also fell in love with Expression Lab, which he struggled to describe except to say, "It's just a place where you get to be yourself."
The academics are another thing we've come to appreciate deeply. There's genuine rigor here, but it's rooted in curiosity, critical thinking, and meaningful engagement rather than rote memorization. Students don't just learn how to solve an equation; they explore *why* it works and discuss different ways of approaching a problem. Project-based learning gives them opportunities to dig into real data and real-world issues, ask questions, and share what they've learned in creative ways. I've seen students celebrate their original fiction at a publishing party, bring history to life through a recreation of an assembly line, and much more. Right now, my son is hard at work on a persuasive essay exploring gender-based pay disparities in professional sports. It's the kind of learning that feels relevant, challenging, and genuinely engaging.
And so much learning happens beyond the classroom. Regular movement and outdoor time are woven into the school experience, from woods days and kayaking trips to middle school camping at the Indiana Dunes. These experiences build practical skills, confidence, independence, and problem-solving abilities, while giving kids space to explore, connect, and challenge themselves.
Now, seeing our son thrive in middle school, I appreciate even more how deeply the school's philosophy is reflected in everyday experiences. Children are truly *known* as individuals and treated with respect. Adults engage with empathy, curiosity, and care, helping students better understand themselves, communicate their needs, and stretch beyond their comfort zones, knowing they have people who will listen, support, and challenge them.
There's also a genuine sense of community here. Seeing friendships and joyful interactions across ages, watching students look out for one another, and getting to know other families through informal after-school gatherings have all reinforced how special this place is.
At a time when the ability to understand ourselves, respect differences, think critically, and care for one another feels especially important, I'm grateful our son is growing up in a school community that doesn't just talk about these values, but puts them into practice every day. We're so glad we made the leap.