Our daughter was successful in public school until the 2nd grade. At that point, despite the good intentions of her behaviorist and teachers, she was experiencing tantrums from severe anxiety, eloping from school, and being ostracized in class and on the playground. When they went to implement the Zones of Regulation with her in class, they told her mid-tantrum, "get in the green zone, or else you will lose recess." Ha! We fought unsuccessfully to get social skills goals included in her IEP, after all, "she was doing fine academically." In the end, despite her robust IEP, she was running aground. Enter The Burkard School...
For us, finding Burkard was a fluke. During a tour of another local special education school, I just so happened to overhear a couple talking about an open house they were attending that evening. We got to chatting, and I wound up joining them at the open house. There I listened to countless parents come to the front of the room and with teary eyes talk about their situation and children who sounded just like mine. I knew that night that this school was the one. It's four years later now, and you wouldn't be able to convince me that it wasn't divine intervention that led us here. Finally, my daughter was in an environment where she is understood and her strengths are celebrated. She is explicitly taught social emotional learning for an hour every day. She has a group of friends, and loves to go to school. She belongs to the Dungeons and Dragons club, the student-led Cat Club, writes for the Burkard student newspaper, and leads lessons on Greek and Latin root words. Every day isn't perfect, but when things get tough the teachers help and support her, and she is learning the skills she needs to self-regulate. She is a much more confident, happy, and self assured person than we ever imagined she could become all those years ago.
When it hit the fan in public school we looked all over the Bay Area, but nothing felt quite right. We were looking for a unicorn. Could we find a school that celebrates student neurodiversity, provides flexible yet rigorous academics, explicitly teaches social emotional learning, helps students gain self regulation skills, gives them the opportunity to participate in extracurriculars, and have a social life without being labeled "that" kid? The answer is, yes! Burkard is it -- unicorns are in fact real. If you are looking for something else for your ND kid, I can't recommend The Burkard School enough. read more