My wife and I started attending this church after moving from the Bible Belt in mid 2019. We got plugged in right away and everyone was extremely welcoming and friendly. This didn't last long as there were many red flags that we ignored for nearly two years. Shortly after getting connected, we had a few hesitations (the church is not LGBTQ-affirming, does not allow women to hold leadership positions other than in the children's ministry, etc). After bringing these hesitations up with our small group leader, our questions were quickly dismissed with the response of "this is what the Bible says," rather than having an actual conversation to help us understand the church's reasoning behind these stances.
Amid these questions and concerns, COVID hit. Not feeling up to the challenge of finding a new church amidst a pandemic, we decided to try to stick it out. Even during the pandemic, our small group leader continued to pressure us into bringing new people to small group to grow and "multiply" the group to try to grow the church as quickly as possible. Growing up in Oklahoma, I understand how evangelicalism works, but this was bizarre--knowing that there is a deadly virus and still encouraging us to engage with and bring new people into our small weekly meetings was another huge red flag.
The straw that broke the camel's back was when we made the decision to look for another church. We had let our small group leader know in advance that this was something we had been thinking about and he initially seemed supportive, saying he wanted us to find a place that fit our needs. When we told him that the upcoming small group meeting would be our last, that we were sad to go, and wanted to end our time with the group on a good note by having some time to say goodbye to people, his response was simply "if you've already made your decision, it's best if you don't come." We were devastated. Keep in mind, these were people that we had gotten to know over the course of two years during a pandemic--a huge part of our lives at the time. After being uninvited, we have yet to hear anything from people who we thought were our friends. Needless to say, we were not their friends, but just a body count toward their goal of growing the business that is Summit Creek Church. If you are looking for a safe place to ask questions, grow your faith, and build genuine connections, this church is sadly not the one for you. read more