No, no, and no after today's visit wherein Dr. Thomas was highly condescending, I would not recommend him. Yes, I need surgery for a meniscus tear, however, I am not ready to proceed because of family obligations. I have two kids, I do it alone, so until summer break when I don't have to be on the go constantly, I'm waiting. All I needed today was a handicapped application signed, which wouldn't be approved by his office without an appointment, an appointment that I scheduled for 10:45 and exited at noon. Dr. Thomas proceeded to tell me the DMV may deny my application because I have a fixable problem and that other people are in pain as well.
One, I have real injuries doctor, plural, so it's incorrect they would deny my application, and two, I'm quite aware other people have pain; my pain doesn't diminish theirs or vice versa. Doctor, my left ankle was dislocated and broken last year, surgery performed and 9 screws later, it still hurts. I have an annular tear in a disc in my lumbar spine, for which no pain existed prior to a 75 year old woman taking a left in her auto directly in front of me. Then, there is the knee injury for which I sought consultation with you, when I slammed and twisted my right knee in the same car accident. Again, no pain existed prior, and my only request was a placard so that when I grocery shop, it doesn't hurt so bad given walking hurts. Why am I made to feel guilty for utilizing something I need? I'm positive others have pain that exceeds mine, and I'm positive some with placards don't suffer nearly as much pain as I do. There is zero wrong with me waiting for an optimal time to undergo surgery due to my family obligations, and given that my only remedy for pain is Ibuprofen 800, a damn placard is not too much to ask. I'm not a whiner, I didn't even want to come in to see you until I'm ready for surgery, but I was required to make an office visit and pay my copay for the condescending lecture and signature. I do the best I can, but I will utilize things that are meant to assist me, which a placard surely does. Furthermore, some patients can't afford your services, and have no choice but to wait. Will you lecture them as well if they ask for a signature. I meet the criteria 100% for a placard, it doesn't say on the form if you are a surgical candidate, you are disqualified. I'll get the placard from the back or ankle doctors in the future, not a big deal; thanks for the lecture.
For the record as well, your assistant is telling patients they can drive after surgery. Is that so, so I'll just drive myself home, pick the kids up from school, whip up some dinner after I pick up a few groceries? Well no, she should be forthright, there is a period of recovery that as a mom I'll be out of commission, which anyone knows without being told. Pain is an interesting thing as well doctor, I am durable and tough, but my body doesn't do well immediately after surgery. Numbing agents don't seem to work well on me, including nerve blocks, even novocaine. After my c-sections, I moved myself immediately because I was not numb. My point is after eight surgeries in my life, I'm now the expert on the level of pain I will endure for a few weeks, and how soon I'll be bouncing around ready for mom duty, not an assistant who makes light of surgery. read more