I am writing to express my deep concerns regarding the unprofessional and unacceptable behavior and communication of nurse manager Maurisca Hoffman, assistant nurse manager Chien Lin Wu and respiratory therapist Abomah during my mother's final hours in the CTICU, Room 3414, at Saint Fransis hospital's ( night shift 7pm-7am on night of 1/27/25).
My mother passed away on January 28, 2025, at 8:10 AM in CTICU after a prolonged hospitalization ( 12/27-1/28/25). Throughout her stay, my family and I encountered repeated instances of inadequate communication, lack of compassion, and undue pressure regarding DNR/DNI decisions. However, the events surrounding her final night were particularly distressing and warrant immediate investigation.
1. Denial of Overnight Visitation and Unprofessional Conduct.
On the day time of January 27, 2025, PA David and Dr. Aziz informed my brother and me that our mother was nearing the end of her life and that her passing could occur within two hours or longer. Given this critical situation, I formally requested permission to remain at my mother's bedside overnight. PA David informed me that I got permittion to stay with my mom in the room.
However, night shift both Assistant Nurse Manager Chien Lin Wu and nurse manager Maurisca Hoffman denied my request and acted in an extremely unprofessional manner, which included:
Chien Lin Wu Raised her voice and yelled at me in front of staff and my critically ill mother.
Stating that I could only stay in the family room and would be allowed to check on my mother for only 10 minutes per hour.
Explicitly forbidding me from asking nurses questions, stating that they were not allowed to respond to me.
Nursing manager Marisca stated that "all staff know what to do and we do not want any famlly member to stay at the bed side because it will be to disturbing for the nurses to handle."
Such treatment was not only emotionally distressing but also entirely inappropriate and lacking basic human compassion, especially for the patient who nonverbal and cannot call for the help or assistance when she needs. As a result, I felt forced to leave the hospital that night, despite my mother being in a critical condition.
2. Unprofessional communication of respiratory therapist Abomah.
On 1/27/25 around 8 pm, while respiratory therapist provided my mom with treatment, monitor showed repiration rate 40. My brother questioned the therapist "why she has a 40 respiration rate?", and she said "is not 40, don't you see her chest is not raising 40 times, the machine is not properly showing the rate". Then my brother asked her "okay, then as a therapist tell us please what is her actual respiratory rate?" and she didn't tell the answer, she just treated us with security u started to complain with the raised voice to Chien Lin Wu that we are bothering her with the questions.
3. Delayed Notification of My Mother's Passing.
At 7:00 AM on January 28, 2025, I received a phone call from a PA in the CTICU informing me that my mother's oxygen saturation had dropped to 40% and asking for permission to administer 1 mg of morphine. I inquired whether suctioning had been performed, and upon confirmation that it had, I authorized the administration of morphine and informed the PA that I was on my way to the hospital.
The next phone call I received was at 8:50 AM, notifying me that my mother had passed away at 8:10 AM--a full 40 minutes prior to the call. When I questioned the reason for this delay, the staff stated they were concerned that informing me while I was driving could result in an accident. This reasoning is entirely unjustifiable, as I should have been informed immediately, allowing me the opportunity to be present in my mother's final moments.
Additionally, upon our arrival at the hospital, my brother and I spent four hours in the room with our deceased mother, and not a single staff member came to offer of condolences or support. Only director CTICU saw me and offered condolences.
None of the staff called us to offer condolences, beside Dr. Sasoon.
This lack of basic human decency was deeply disturbing.
4. Repeated Pressure for Comfort Care and DNR/DNI Decisions
Throughout my mother's one-month hospitalization, we were persistently pressured to pursue comfort care, hospice, and DNR/DNI orders to my mother.
This approach was neither empathetic nor medically appropriate, as it ignored our family's wishes and failed to consider her clinical status objectively. Instead of offering guidance and compassionate care, these statements were delivered in a way that felt coercive and dismissive of our rights as family members. read more