The funeral home and Lutheran church pastor were aware I was coming from Wisconsin to be present for my parents joint service. It was to begin at 12:00. I arrived at the grave site at 11:53 to discover their urn had already been buried! I asked why??? and was told "your sister said to go ahead." They were fully aware of the family tension and the pastor even warned my sister he didn't want any problems. (I was told this by the church secretary.) I questioned again "why?" and was told because she had been the one to pay him!
Point- She paid with our parents funds, not her own.
Point- our brother was executor of our parents estate, not our sister
I didn't even get an apology read more