Dan Simon is a master at facilitating healing conversations between even the most contentious parties. As a marriage and family therapist, I am committed to helping divorcing couples terminate their marriages in a conscious and constructive way. Sadly, too many couples believe that the only way to "avoid getting screwed" is to hire expensive lawyers who will fight hard to get them a fair deal. What angry, hurting couples need isn't another fight, especially when there are children involved. Most often, what each person needs most is to be heard and to have their needs understood by their spouse. This is what Dan does so beautifully. He treats both spouses with great respect and helps them express their needs and wants in a constructive way. When this happens, no one feels like they got screwed; they come away feeling like they just "got heard." read more

I just completed Dan Simon's 3-day mediation training course and am still mulling over what I learned. It was simple and complex, profound and obvious, easy and difficult. With a humble approach, Dan sees disputes as when one or more of the parties involved feels weak and stuck. He then shows you how to support the parties' conversation so that each can hear themselves and the other and thereby gain greater clarity about their situation. This clarity empowers each of the parties to feel more in control and more willing to respond in a productive manner to the other. The transformative shift is subtle. But it is amazing how it changes your perspective. read more

I had been seeking to take a professional mediation training for some time and ran across Simon Mediation's website. I was immediately drawn in by the Transformative approach that Dan offers in the world. What a brilliant minded, kind-hearted, gracious, guide Dan was into the world of mediation. This training has numerous applications, not just in the realm of mediation, but offers wisdom to embellish any relationship or interaction, in either conflict or in the joys of life. the Transformative approach is synergistic with many professional paths. I highly recommend Dan's two week training as a stair step down into the depth of this approach. read more

I recently took Dan's Transformative Mediation course and would give it 10 stars if possible! I learned so much that I can immediately apply to my daily work as a special education teacher. Learning how to identify and settle conflicts in a positive, relational and client focused manner is so valuable. Dan is an excellent mediator who treats everyone at the table with great respect. Allowing someone to feel heard is a true gift and will transform how individuals react in stressful situations. I highly recommend Dan as a mediator and trainer! He has another class which focuses on Family Mediation which I am looking forward to taking!! read more

Simon Mediation's Transformative approach to mediation is a delightful guide full of great opportunities to learn theory and practice for those who are either looking to be updated on the recent changes to Rule 114 or for those who are looking to start a career in mediation. The best part of the training is the fact that Dan is able to bring a rich variety of professionals together to both guest lecture and be a part of the training. Either way, you leave with a wider network and access to a vast wealth of resources. I have been transformed! read more

I recently had the privilege of attending Dan Simon's Transformative Mediation training. This training changed the way that I view conflict and my approach to conflict resolution. Dan Simon is a natural teacher. I highly recommend this training to anyone wanting to learn how to deal with conflict, either personally or professionally. And as an attorney, I intend on hiring Dan as a mediator in the future because his approach to mediation is undoubtedly a preferable alternative to protracted litigation. read more

Dan Simon helped my family resolve an emotionally charged court case and avoid the need for further legal action. He is a highly skilled mediator, very pleasant to work with, and his prices are more than fair. With Dan's help, we got our issues resolved in less than 2 days and saved thousands in future legal expenses - not to mention the savings in emotional costs by getting out of a long, drawn-out legal battle. I highly recommend!! Dawn Devore Huntington Beach, CA read more

Dan Simon is a gifted mediator and educator. He has been on the forefront of shaping the Transformative approach for decades. I have known him for one of those decades and consider him a mentor. He brilliantly engages and instills confidence allowing individuals to transform their conflict whether emotional, transactional or financial ... or all three. I highly recommend Dan Simon to anyone wishing to mediate or to learn Transformative Mediation. read more

Dan provided an excellent training experience, despite the pandemic restrictions and everything being done remotely and still didn't miss a beat! I learned tons about the transformative model that I've incorporated both professionally and personally. I enjoyed role playing the most because it helped me to gain perspective of both the Mediator and Participant so that was pretty cool. I also had a lot of fun and met some really good people. read more

Dan helped my wife and me work through the differences we had around parenting our daughter. He was amazing, with a kind of sixth sense for when to intervene and when to hang back. With his support--and we couldn't have done it without him--we got on the same page as parents. And the understanding we reached held fast right through until our kid was grown and off to college. I can't recommend him highly enough. read more

It's not every day I meet such a kind, compassionate, and humble human being who genuinely wishes to help other people and do good in the world. Dan's course in transformative mediation is interesting, informative, entertaining, and filled with lots of laughs. I must admit, I went into the training a skeptic, but I left a believer! I was transformed! Take this course, you will be glad you did! read more

Dan Simons is not just another mediator/educator. He is among the forerunners in the Transformative approach to mediation. I was fortunate to attend one of Dan's recent 3-day workshops. The program was engaging, informative, and practical in adding to my mediation skills. Thank you Dan, for a job well done. I heartily recommend Dan's workshop as a source for extraordinary mediation training. read more

I just finished my second mediation training with Dan Simon. The first was in Minnesota and the second in California. I went back because the experience was so good. Not only did I learn a lot about mediation but Dan was also able to make a training a wonderful group experience. The best part of the training was the mediation practice where we were given valuable and helpful feedback. read more

I had a conflict -- partly personal, partly business -- that I kind of assumed was beyond resolving. Dan found the common ground, the consensus from which discussions could start, and an outcome amenable to both sides could be found. I'd rather not run into the same situation again, but if I do, I'll be bringing it to Simon Mediation in Los Angeles. Bob Y in Malibu read more

Dan Simon conducts high quality, comprehensive, fun, and thought-provoking mediation trainings. I have been mediating since 2003 and Dan's training is the best professional training I have ever experienced. I highly recommend Dan's training not only for mediators, but for professionals who can benefit from increasing their conflict resolution skills. read more

I highly recommend Dan's course. it was engaging, informative, and productive. After participating in mediation courses in law school, I was not sure what to expect. However, it met and went above and beyond my expectations. You will walk away feeling prepared and better equipped to serve as a mediator. Thank you, Dan. read more

I highly recommend Dan as a mediator and teacher. I recently attended Transformative Mediation Training and immediately began using the skills I learned in my daily work. As an attorney with 20 years of experience, I appreciated learning a new perspective and gaining some valuable skills. read more

I highly recommend mediation training by Dan Simon. In addition to receiving great training on transformation mediation approach, I appreciate the hands-on opportunity to practice mediating. The training was inspiring and empowering. read more

Dan (and Simon Mediation) is absolutely fantastic. LOVED the certified divorce mediation training. I learned so much and feel ready to jump into the work. 10/10 read more