My experience at Dr. Offer's was bittersweet. I made my appointment in July. In between then and the actual date of the appointment (a month's time), I had an appointment with my primary care physician who mentioned that SHE sees Dr. Offer. Needless to say, my trust and expectations in Dr. Offer greatly increased, especially with such good Yelp reviews.
I went for my actual appointment, and the intake nurse was very friendly. She informed me that before Dr. Offer was going to come in, a medical student would be coming in to ask me some questions. She let me know that he was male, and asked me if I was okay with that. I agreed, but also asked her if the male student would also be there for the actual exam, to which she said no, he would leave. I replied, "Okay, that's good."
The male student came in, asked me questions about my health, what was happening, and why I came in (routine visit, just a pap smear), and left. He was nice enough, but I was glad he wouldn't be in the room while my feet were in the stirrups. I chose a female obgyn for a reason--I feel more comfortable when it's a woman and not a man down there.
Then, Dr. Offer came in the room for my exam. AND SO DID THE MALE STUDENT. AND THE INTAKE NURSE. I was a bit confused, and not sure what was going on, and before I knew it, the exam was happening. That's right, three people got to stare at me with my feet up in the stirrups. I suppose I could have spoken up and asked that my nether regions not be made into a spectacle (three's a crowd, after all), but my head was swimming and I suppose my disbelief kept my mouth shut.
Dr. Offer was knowledgeable, polite, and I felt in good hands with her as my doctor, but the fact that the intake nurse outright LIED to me when I asked her if the male med student would be in the room during the exam was horrible. If future visits entail just me and the doctor, and less of an audience, everything will be wonderful, and Dr. Offer will get the 5 stars from me that SHE deserves. But if I'm again told there will not be a male student in the room during my exam and one shows up, I may walk out on the spot. In a paper gown.
tl;dr - If you're uncomfortable with a male in the room during your exam, SPEAK UP EARLY. read more