It was Master Finger and another black belt who on more than one occasion made condescending and patronizing remarks about my body size making snide comments such as " I was wider than a barn door" also we once had a sparring class and he handed out helmets for everyone, and he singled me out and in front of the class told me " I don't have a helmet for you because your head is too big." During many instances I was polite yet firm and explicitly told Master Finger that disparaging comments about my body is not something that I can put up with, and at the bare minimum all I asked was to be treated with respect and basic human dignity and my requests would all fall on deaf ears. Apparently it was too much, and his sense of entitlement and superiority to make these disparaging remarks about another human being"s appearance was when I decided enough was enough.
The last straw was when he made a rude comment about my thighs telling me "That I had bigger thighs than most" during conducting a demo with myself and another student after he made that comment and I tried to address him politely he once again started dodging accountability. He chalked it up to my height, however I am of average height for a male not exceptionally tall. After addressing how he treats me differently compared to the other students through a letter he once again defended his words. He did nothing to offer to make things right with me. This is not how you treat others who are trying to better themselves. Body diversity is a real thing, and people should not have to justify their existence because they are in a body that challenges societal norms. People should be able to feel free to work out and do fitness classes in a safe space without being on the receiving end of brutality disguised as objective opinions. read more