The Preschool Tour....ugh.
Thank goodness that's over since I found a place I feel safe leaving my children at!
I dreaded it and procrastinated until I actually had to -- the year before Kindergarten.
As a SAHM in SF, my only options were Coops or FirstFive discounted preschools.
I visited some 'regular' preschools, but did not like the idea of dropping my kids off 5 days a week (required by FirstFive) in a classroom with 20 kids and 2 teachers.
I have two boys and know for a fact that even at a 2-1 ratio, I am outnumbered.
Call me paranoid, but I'm pretty sure some things go unnoticed -- which would be fine if they were older and could speak coherently about what goes on around them, but...well, let's just call me paranoid.
Co-ops are cheaper than the traditional preschools because parents/caregivers work there once a week. I visited two in SF. I loved the 8-1 adult -child ratio, the flexibility, social stuff, and the price couldn't be beat.
It was crazy.
People with infants were touring.
Apparently, there is a waiting list longer than the Academy of Science line on free days. And on top of that, the $50 application fee is ....for what? To hold your place on a list that you can't see (because they don't tell you what number in line you are because kids with certain 'desired attributes' get favored -- to have the absolute best diverse preschool they can.) So really, you're just throwing $50 into a 'maybe' lottery.
I'd rather buy a pair of shoes that look pretty and hurt my feet.
Anyway, so I started searching South since I lived close to the freeway, it did not seem unreasonable -- most people move to Pacifica, Daly City, and Milbrae when they have kids-- so why not a preschool?
I made a comparison chart and filled it out at every preschool I looked at.
My notes on Pacifica Coop -- 15 min drive from home. Afternoon session available only, morning full -- priority goes to current families -- food provided --4 hr maintenance work, 2 mandatory meetings -- 3 clean bathrooms -- gigantic playground.
The other coops in that South SF area had mostly the same thing also.
But the deciding factor for me, was the schedule. The kids are allowed in the playground 50 min free play (other place was 60 min, but only inside play), 15 circle time, 40 min activity (inside and out), snack, then 30 min outside play, then circle time.
I reiterate-- I have boys. They need to be outside. Badly. I don't care if the preschool is the size of a football field. Outside is better.
You may think that Pacifica is a dreary foggy place. That's what SF people think -- and it's true -- in the mornings! In the afternoon, it is sunny and hot and -- seriously -- sunscreen is a necessity there -- I kid you not.
Oh -- the kicker -- this preschool actually has a scholarship program that is not funded by the government (so no ridiculous requirements) -- but by the school's own summer program.
There are two fundraisers in the year, and yes, they are alot of work.
I heard some parents complain once, and I thought -- yes, it is alot of work!
But the tuition is HALF the price of traditional preschool. You have FOUR times more supervision than a traditional preschool. And really -- they are not that strict -- you can always pay the "commitment fee of $80" and not go to the meeting or volunteer opportunities. No one is forcing you. You made a choice to not pay and instead work. Stop complaining.
As my husband likes to smugly say when I complain about it -- "suck it up -- do it for the kids"
The clincher for me (aside from the $5 waitlist application) was minute that the wild boys on the playground -- transformed into quiet attentive listeners at circle time.
Disclaimer: Results may vary :)
PS. Yes, my kids love it.
Yes, my kid is in love with his teacher.
Yes, as a parent who works there, there are a couple kids that are in love with me too and vice versa. read more