What's so strikingly unique about Fabiola Wong is that she really does care about your healing process. And the thing is, I didn't even know I needed to heal when I was first introduced to On The Hotline. After we met, I quickly found myself scrolling through her online presence wondering how I could embody more of what she championed; undeniable confidence and a complete ownership of where she was in her pursuit of self worth (within the world of dating and relationships of course). She never seemed to compromise her needs or desires and I wanted nothing more than to be able to move through my life like that, authentically happy and secure about where I was at any given moment. Dating is strange at 30. We're all ready for the right thing to happen at the perfect moment where all things seem to align, but really, I had no idea my ability to identify a healthy relationship was so warped. Before I took How to Not Suck at Dating, I was newly seeing someone that I was already highly considering as 'the one'. My biggest takeaway during the course was that I couldn't identify that this guy I was dating wasn't even close to Mr. Right. But how could I be so wrong? Through a lot of reflection and redirection, I realized (on my own terms) that I needed to leave and move on. What's more is, I walked away knowing that I didn't have to compromise my happiness and stay in a relationship that didn't feed my basic needs. Now that I'm dating out in the wild again, I find myself using my How to Not Suck at Dating tools regularly. I'm finally enjoying the process of dating and interacting with the possibility of happiness on my journey to love. Thank you On The Hotline! read more