We went through all the specifics for funeral arrangements for my father. At the very end of planning everything, the subject of payment was brought up. We were told that full payment upfront is required. It would have been nice to find that out before going through the planning. We were hoping to work out some sort of payment arrangement. Pulling $6,000 out of thin air was almost impossible. They need to broach the subject of right at the beginning to avoid confusion and hostility. People are in mourning. The last thing we want to think about is how to pay for services. read more