I recently had the worst experience at the ER here, and specifically with Dr. Gross (dark skin, dark hair). I went in with severe abdominal pain. I couldn't stand upright, couldn't walk without extreme pain and nausea and I have a very high pain threshold, and am generally a pretty stoic person.
I went to the ER, and pretty much immediately felt dismissed. I had this feeling that Dr. Gross thought I was drug seeking, which was further evidenced by my records when I accessed them the next day on the Patient Portal, which showed that he did a drug screen. I never once asked for pain meds. To be honest, the pain was so bad, that I didn't one time think that there was anything that could help other than to get to the bottom of what was happening. I just wanted to know what was wrong. I also get that sometimes these assumptions can be based on appearances and patient presentation. But I am a 46 year old professional female, in great health and shape, and know how to interact in the real world. And aside from being in horrible pain, I presented myself as such.
My blood work showed an infection of some sort. The CT scan report which I read the next day in the Patient Portal showed diverticulitis. However 2 hours after the CT results and blood work were in (I could see the time on the portal when I looked the next day), I finally asked the nurse if my results were back yet and she told me that the doctor would be in to talk to me in a few minutes. Dr. Gross came in and the first words he said were very terse and that he was discharging me in a way that felt like I was just making it all up. He said nothing about my test results, nothing. When I asked HIM, he said that my CT was fine and that aside from high WBC, everything was fine, and that my high WBC was probably due to stress.
I hobbled away in the same awful pain that I walked in with, feeling very defeated, and honestly really confused. He had said that he'd call in antibiotics and anti-nausea meds, but he never did. When I called the ER the next day to ask about the prescriptions that were supposed to be called in, the nurse said she saw where Dr. Gross said in the notes that I needed to take the meds as prescribed, but he never sent them in. She said that the only way for me to get these prescriptions was to come back to the ER to see a different provider as Dr. Gross wasn't on that day.
This experience kept me from even wanting to go back to any ER even though I was still in severe pain. I'm not trying to be dramatic here, but it's hard to explain how much I was about to try and ignore the serious nature of what was actually going on due to the treatment here.
At my husbands insistence, I went to the Vanderbilt ER the next day. Thank GOD! Not only did I have diverticulitis, but also an abscess with a small perforation in my colon which required emergency surgery. I was under the knife within an hour to remove the sigmoid part of my colon. It could have been SO much worse, and I'm so grateful to the staff at Vanderbilt for taking my complaints seriously, treating me with respect, empathy and kindness, and getting to the bottom of a serious situation despite the fact that they were so incredibly busy.
You will NEVER see me or anyone I love and care about step foot in this hospital again. This isn't our first issue with Tri-Star, but it's certianly the nail in the coffin for me. There is something systemically wrong with this place that Dr. Gross was allowed to act in this manner, not even read CT results, not call in meds, and make grossly inaccurate assumptions. Speaking to the systemic issues here, I should have picked up on it at the first moment that a nurse took me back to my to my room. I could literally barely walk, and she was Olympic style speed walking through winding halls. I told her "I'm sorry, I'm moving pretty slow" she shouted back to me "it's okay" and kept winding through halls at an insane speed. I finally had to ask the janitor (who was very kind) how to get to room 5 as she had left me in the dust. I don't know what's going on at this place, but it's systemic and toxic. Don't go here, and don't let your loved one go here either. read more