There isn't a concept of "balanced" teams. If you happen to be on a good team with a good coach, great; if not, you are stuck with a severely unbalanced team.
Players and coaches can stick together through the seasons/years, which gives a (huge) advantage to those teams.
Also, the season is very short if you don't make playoffs. Only the top 6 teams make playoffs; so your season will be 7 weeks if you don't make playoffs. When there's 12 teams and you don't even play every team once, it is frustrating that not everyone at least gets a chance at the playoffs (like they have in AYSO soccer, etc.). So 6 out of 12 teams will have a 7 week season and won't make playoffs.
I witnessed two coaches going at it with each other at a recent game. The behavior of one coach in particular was appalling - I am so disgusted and sad that my child had to witness this type of behavior. This angry, screaming, yelling coach had to be physically restrained by another man. I felt safety was an issue until he eventually calmed down. (Two coaches of two opposing teams disagreed on a call which led to the disagreement/argument.) The commissioner had to come over. However, parents never received any further communication, apologies, there was no suspension of any coach, etc.
I am so disappointed that this happened and that my child had to witness such ugliness; this is supposed to be a fun, safe environment for the kids, and in that particular situation, it was most definitely not. Also, I was extremely disappointed (and shocked) in the lack of response and communication from the commissioner/league to the parents. There was no repercussion that parents were made aware of.
Also, I witnessed first hand how kids do NOT get equal playing time at all. Better kids play longer and get more plays. The coach decides who to put in, how long, etc. and there are no rules governing that, which is fine, as long as the league were up front about it - it is NOT about competitive play and learning, in my experience (obviously depending on the coach), it's ALL about winning. I have seen coaches berating and yelling at their own kids/teams.
I would equate this to a "club" culture under the guise of a "rec" league. Since the better teams stick together season after season with the same core group of players, of course those teams will be the better ones. As a result, this league doesn't really foster competitive play. Which is fine - just be up front about it.
However as I mentioned previously my biggest complaint is seeing such ugliness and absolutely no communication or response from the commissioner/league. My child has played in many sports and different leagues, etc. and not only was the screaming coaches' behavior despicable (at a kids' flag football game for goodness' sake), the lack of any response or communication from the commissioner/league was truly disheartening and disappointing. Will not be back. read more