TLDR: this dentist performed the most painful and rough drilling/filling I've ever had and it was the sort of experience that causes people to have severe dental anxiety.
Plus, overall, the office was consistently late/disorganized.
If I ever want to feel panicky, rushed, and in pain, I'll come back here.
I came here for three total visits.
The first visit should have been a very standard x-ray, exam, and cleaning - super simple and quick.
I budgeted two hours of my life for it, which seemed excessive, but ended up being insufficient.
The first visit: it took an hour for me to get seated in the chair and have the hygienist come around.
The hygienist (understandably) did a pretty fast/rushed cleaning to try to save time.
Unfortunately, everything was so late, the exam portion was pushed back to another visit, which was scheduled a few weeks later.
The second visit: the office was running late, but less delayed than the first visit.
However, that "exam" consisted of the dentist spending a total of five minutes with me, just reading x-ray results.
He informed me that I had two "small" cavities, both on my lower jaw, the furthest molars back, that could be dealt with quickly.
It was so short and cursory that it could have been an email!
I don't recall getting a gum check (where they measure millimeters of gum depth / inflammation / etc) at either the first visit by the hygienist, or the second visit by the dentist.
The third visit: the straw that broke the camel's back.
I came in ten minutes early for a 1pm appointment to get both "small" cavities filled.
It took until 130pm until the hygienist came around and started prepping things.
Apparently people were late coming back from lunch; the overall vibe was rushed, stressed, and running late.
The dentist started with topical analgesic on a cotton swap, but he placed it in a way that a flap of cloth hung down my throat and I gagged.
The dentist then did the injected analgesic, and ignored me as I tried to gesture with my hands that he was going too fast and being too rough.
He said something dismissive, to the effect of "it always hurts" or similar.
Then the drilling began.
The tooth was not fully numb, and I jerked in pain while drilling; he then injected more analgesic, very roughly.
At one point, I could feel the needle in my jaw and he pushed so hard it rocked my head back and forth.
WTF do you even do at that point?
He then finished drilling and began filling.
Communication was minimal to non-existent through the whole process.
At one point I tried to ask roughly how far we were, like 10% or 90% or halfway.
He seemed to hesitate and then said "I guess 90%?" like he wasn't sure.
He then told me that they were large cavities, across the entire tooth, and I learned I was only getting one done at that visit.
There's a joke somewhere about a dentist who talks a lot and asks questions when you can't reply, but that would be far better than a basically silent dentist who can't be bothered to say "turn towards me" or "tilt your head this way" or "open wider" or "relax your mouth" or "now I'll drill some more" or "we're almost done".
"Please" and "thanks" would also have been great to hear occasionally.
It's now been about three days since that visit, and my jaw is still incredibly sore (probably because of the injections, not the drilling).
The hygienists and the schedulers were fine, pleasant, polite, etc.
But the general always-running-late vibe wasn't great, and then the dentist himself was just awful.
If I ever want to feel panicky, rushed, and in pain, I'll come back here.
Otherwise I'll drive the extra twenty minutes back to my old dentist. read more