Date day today led us to Mt. Cuba, so obviously I was hoping for a 5-star experience. Unfortunately, I didn't get it.
I do NOT recommend a tour, unless you are an industry professional. I do NOT recommend bringing kids. The tour absolutely will bore kids to death (as well as most adults), & it is doubtful that the people who manage this place would tolerate the temperament/behavior of children.
Before I go on, let me explain that my grandfather created & maintained a 400-tree holly orchard for over 50 years. I grew up on the orchard & helped my grandfather with the trees all the time. He developed hybrids, etc. Horticulture was not his career, nor his life, but he was an active member of the Holly Society, the PA Horticultural Society, & taught horticulture courses at a nearby trade school. He also showed at the Flower Show in Philly (in the 80's, before it became a commercial mess). I have been to Holly Society meetings with him; helped him give tours of our orchard for Scott Arboretum (who took his cuttings for the arboretum), etc. I know local horticultural people, & I have my own interest & knowledge in it. With my background, I felt Mt. Cuba's tour was extremely tedious + arcane, & should have been advertised as a horticultural lecture for degree holders, rather than a walk-n-talk around the property.
Some examples:
I do not need to know all the steps of the long & laborious 7yr propagation process for Trillium.
I do not need to know the pruning method used on the hedges.
I do not need to know the construction details of the mulch path (a substrate layer of gravel, french drains, landscaping fabric). It wasn't even anything beyond HGTV, but really, who cares?
I do not need to know what moss is weeded with tweezers. (Ridiculously high-maintenance for a "Natural" garden & NOT worth it.)
None of this was Q&A. Just told to us, in place of interesting history.
I was hoping just to enjoy walking on the path, be told some basic history about the Copeland family, have a few noteworthy species pointed out, have the docent answer questions, & that's it. Instead, it was layer upon layer of tedious info, shuffling along, two steps at a time, & then standing for a 10-minute lecture, repeat x12. NOT my idea of fun.
If you have any physical issues, you will suffer. I have back & foot issues; I can jog or walk for miles with no issue, but the stop-&-stand is miserable for me. While there were numerous seating areas, we were never invited to sit (I sat anyway). Even in very comfortable clothes, orthotics, + sneakers, I was in total pain by the end.
Everyone was a good 30+ years older than us, & yet I never cease to be amazed at how age does not always afford someone maturity. My husband & I were pretty put off by the pretentiousness of both the guide & fellow tourists, who seemed to want to compete/impress each other over their grasp of native species, in an intellectual-snob way, like insecure middle-schoolers.
It was just NOT for us.
As stated, we opted to visit on a tour day. What they did NOT explain on the website, & what they really ought to explain, since it is pretty unusual, is that if you go on a tour day, you are NOT permitted to walk freely about the gardens on your own. REPEAT, if you go on a tour day, you are NOT permitted to walk freely about the gardens on your own. This means that if you planned your day to spend a few hours there, it's too bad for you, b/c after the 2-hour tour, they will kick you out.
Why? Because they have to weed with tweezers.
If you go on a non-tour day, you are permitted to walk freely, & that is the only option. But for some reason, if you pay for a tour, you are then told to leave. This makes no sense & is completely inhospitable. It is also exasperating, especially when you find it out after you planned your whole trip for a longer visit (+ called + emailed ahead, & no one said a word about these odd limitations).
So as my husband & I went to part company with our tour today, in order to explore on our own, our guide, Nancy, rudely demanded,"Where are you going?" as if we were retarded kindergartners.
Wondering what her problem was, I patiently explained we were headed outside to look around some more. Oh no, Nancy made sure to bluntly tell us that is absolutely NOT permitted, & all visitors need to fill out a survey, & then leave.
Mandatory surveys? Who does that? Ew. We should have declined, but when you're in the quiet hallway with 6 others obediently completing their stupid cards, the middle school pressure is on. Needless to say, our reviews, while kinder than they should have been, were not favorable.
Really? My husband & I take a day off, we suffer through a 2hr tour of digression in 90-degree heat, half in the sun, unable to move b/c we're having to listen to the details of how the mulch path was laid, & then you tell us we can't go walk around at our leisure?
Maybe next visit (w/out a tour) will be better? read more