So, my lovah and I decided to start taking dance lessons several months ago, as we have a large event coming up, and we didn't want to 1. Grind on each other in front of my grandmother (she collects knives), 2. Look like were being electrocuted, 3. Resort to using my go-to dance moves (it looks like the hokey pokey mixed with the robot, but not nearly as sexy as either of those dances) 4. Dance only to the electric slide or cha cha slide 5. Do the prom dance shuffle.
All those sound awful right? Anyway, I began a search for ballroom dancing lessons and after a thorough browsing of reviews, speaking to several companies, I met Ken Kalowy (owner of Moving Images) (also, I may spell his name wrong. Every single time I write him a check. It's pronounced Callaway! Like the golf people. We had a long discussion about how the spelling of his name confused me and he should do something about it).
We are learning several types of dances (you know, cause these events generally play more than one type of song). We've been going once or twice a week for several months now! It's $90 per private lesson - AND WORTH EVERY PENNY!!!
He's incredibly patient with us, funny, doesn't mind touching me while dancing even though I get a little sweaty. Ew. What a champ. My paramour, who I thought would be awesome because he's generally never afraid to get in the middle of a dance circle and make his butt clap, has been having a little more trouble, but it's because he wants to do it right! He's a perfectionist. Anyway, Ken is always patient with him. He has an amazing eye - catching things we do incorrectly and nipping that bullsh*t in the bud before they become a habit. At first we started off just marching/walking/moving to the beat (like for 5 minutes when we were first learning how to salsa), but as we've continued, we've realized how important it is to get the timing perfect, and how even though it looks easy - every little motion is taken into account in order to make the dance (and you) look good. And that is how it has gone for each type of dance he's introduced to us - he breaks it down to the basics, provides constructive criticism, and even let's my sweet SO lead him (but that's only when sweet SO is doing something really wrong).
The pacing of his lessons is perfect. At first I was worried we were going too slow, but after our first lesson, I realized just how much we learned! He teaches us 1-3 new things at every lesson - depending on how well we're doing each move. Lessons are 45 minutes - pretty standard for all the dance companies I spoke to.
He does have a policy where he asks you to cancel 24 hours in advance, because he pays to rent the room he uses for private lessons (it's separate from his studio). We once had to cancel the day of because I was sick, but he let us off the hook :) Otherwise, you have to pay a cancellation fee. But honestly - canceling at least 24 hours in advance should be common courtesy for any business/person you are working with. Anyway, we unwisely rescheduled for right after I got better and I was clearly off my normal "only kind of bad" game. The next lesson, he spent asking me if I needed water, if I was ok, and generally keeping an eye on me to make sure I wouldn't pass out on him. It really meant a lot to me.
Honestly, I'm just sorry we didn't start taking lessons earlier. Anyway, because we love it so much, Sweet SO and I have decided to continue taking lessons after the big event (a wedding)! It gives us an excuse to take a break, go to beautiful Center City, dance, followed by a dinner date :) Ken gives private lessons in a building on Rittenhouse Square - perfect for a date night!
At our last lesson (we just left it) he told us that his company got an award - Best Of Philadelphia 2011!!! Congrats and you totally deserve it :) I've never had so much fun exercising! read more