Please bypass this dentist. In a moment of despair, I chose him because my husband is seen there. I have had teeth pulled in the past with no issues, but I do have a little anxiety regardless when it comes to dentistry. I had had unrelenting nerve pain for 14 hours before visiting Dr. Melo, and I hadn't slept or eaten in well over 24 hours. I wanted the tooth pulled, but had to wait 2 days until my blood thinners were out of my system. The receptionist told me to come in for an x-ray to make sure he could pull it, and then they could set up the appointment to have it extracted after two days.
Dr. Melo's bedside manner is quite abysmal. I filled out their health sheet, and he started making statements about how I was too young to have already had shingles and blood clots. (I broke my ankle, it wasn't poor health but a provoked incident). Regardless, I answered his questions and told him what I wanted. At first, he wanted to pull the tooth right then and there; I told him it had to wait until Friday. He scoffed, saying that waiting for the blood thinners to clear my system wasn't necessary. Then he remarked that he wanted to pull another tooth as well, which I had no issue with, but I first wanted to get the horribly painful one out first. He wanted to do both at one time, and due to my TMJ and the inability to hold my mouth open for extended periods of time, I said I would rather do the painful tooth first and come back on another visit to do the other. (I was paying cash, so the financial burden was on me). He started talking about a root canal, which I declined. He becomes a little aggressive, saying "You do realize there will be a gap in between your teeth, right?" Of course I do. I stayed polite, and said I would still like the extraction.
He then took the mirror and checked over my mouth, remarking about the state of my teeth being very soft and cavity-filled. After going through the grand inquisition, questioning and making snide comments about my health history, he then decided he wanted to take a metal instrument and start hitting my bad tooth to see if it was that tooth that hurt, or the other bad tooth (that I wasn't having issues with). The painful tooth is half gone, and you can clearly see the nerve is exposed. I declined nicely, saying that I had just endured 14 hours of horrific pain and that I didn't think it was necessary to hit it and start the nerve pain back up. He then wanted to hit the other tooth that wasn't giving me issues, which I also declined; I wasn't being seen for that tooth, and my mouth was in such a heightened state of pain, I wanted to avoid any chance of the pain coming back. I just wanted him to the do the x-rays, confirm it could be pulled, and make an appointment for an extraction: that's it. I told him he's free to bang around anywhere he likes after I've had the shots. Very simple, right?
Wrong. After declining his metal tapping in fear of pain, he stood up and told me to find another dentist. That if I wouldn't even let him hit my broken tooth with an exposed nerve, no anesthesia, with a blunt metal instrument, that basically I was an insubordinate patient that he wouldn't tolerate. His words: "I have never refused a patient, but if you won't even let me touch your mouth, you'll need to go elsewhere." He then told the receptionist "Give her a copy of her x-ray, no charge, she'll need to find another dentist."
Yes. Dr. Melo threw me out of his practice because he wanted to start hitting my sensitive teeth with a metal object and I said no. I have had oral shots and I have had teeth pulled, this isn't my first rodeo. I have had my teeth scraped and cleaned with no issue. Metal tools in my mouth aren't the best, but I certainly understand their position in the dental world. Because I wanted to avoid unnecessary pain that would accompany his banging, I was refused. This wasn't a case of "Which tooth is causing the pain?" Clearly, the x-ray showed the culprit. I found out only an hour later, when I begged my local dentist to look at my x-ray, that I had an infection in the tooth which was causing the pain. Dr. Melo didn't even tell me that much. The other dentist also told me that my teeth were in real good condition besides the two teeth needing extracting; they were not soft and cavity-ridden, as Dr. Melo implied.
Dr. Melo didn't care about my discomfort; he wanted to bang around my sore mouth and when I told him "please, don't," he sent me on my way. If he was concerned about the pain being from the unpainful tooth, he could have waited until the painful tooth was extracted to find out if the pain lingered. I planned on getting both out anyway, so if the first extraction didn't take the pain away, the second would have. Common sense and decency eluded him, and he decided it was better to throw a patient who desperately needed dental care out of his office than to work with her. Shame on him. read more