This is the third review I've had to write not because I enjoy writing negative reviews, but because MAMBEC has refused to take accountability for the way they treated my son and caused him to have a very negative outlook on group activities. Instead of listening, learning, or showing an ounce of humility, they've doubled down, even allowing those connected to the organization to publicly insult and label my child in discriminatory, ableist ways.
My son was isolated, excluded, and made to feel less than for simply being slightly different, for having energy, imagination, and a love for movement and sound. Yes, he's hyper. He's five. He's never been forced to sit in a silent circle for long stretches with no purpose, no creativity, and no real engagement. He sings when he's nervous. He dances when he's overwhelmed. Sometimes he pretends the world around him is a really cool band and he plays every song, That's not misbehaviour that's expression. That's coping. That's just him.
Instead of embracing who he is (as any truly inclusive camp would) MAMBEC treated his uniqueness as a problem to manage. They confined him, judged him, and ultimately made him feel like he didn't belong. He wasn't given the benefit of the doubt. He wasn't guided with patience. He was othered, and in ways no child should ever experience.
And now, because I dared to speak up, people tied to the camp are attacking me and my children in public. If that's the culture surrounding this program, then I'm relieved we left but I won't be silent about what we went through. I won't let a business that brands itself as "inclusive" continue to hurt kids who don't fit the mold.
Parents, if your child is joyful, expressive, neurodivergent, sensitive, or simply human, please look elsewhere. MAMBEC isn't inclusive it's rigid, outdated, and unwilling to grow. And until they do, more kids will walk away questioning themselves, just like mine did.
The first 2 reviews below are my initial ones.
MAMBEC (Martial Arts Mind Body Education Center) Inc 2003 https://g.co/kgs/Sp915cg
MAMBEC (Martial Arts Mind Body Education Center) Inc 2003 https://g.co/kgs/q4HMZ3d
The third response came from the owner's partner, someone who, as far as I know (and truly hope), had no direct involvement with my children. Despite that, he took it upon himself to publicly label my five-year-old son as "uncontrollable," "entitled," "arrogant," and "likely on the spectrum." He didn't stop there he also referred to my daughter, who is calm, thoughtful, and kind, as "arrogant" as well.
Let me be absolutely clear what he described as arrogance is actually self-awareness. My children know how they deserve to be treated. They've been raised to understand they have the right to say no, the right to express themselves, and the right to be respected... always. That's not entitlement. That's confidence. That's emotional safety. And for an adult tied to this organization to weaponize those qualities especially against small children is not just cruel. It's revealing.
This wasn't just an attack on our family it was a public attempt to humiliate young children to protect a brand. And that says everything you need to know about the culture at MAMBEC.
MAMBEC (Martial Arts Mind Body Education Center) Inc 2003 https://g.co/kgs/3Wfp4dn read more