My family has wanted to foster a dog for a week or two to see how it would get on with our current dog, Nadia, and then adopt if all went well. I won't go into all of the details, but my mom and I discussed with Debbie that while Nadia loves meeting and playing with other dogs, we were not sure how she would be with another dog living with us, though she has never been violent with another dog. Debbie suggested that maybe a male dog would be better as a second dog, but we assured her that we have experience with pairs of female dogs and we did not think gender was an issue in this case.
Anyway, we had submitted our foster application on a Tuesday, and Kelly was supposed to arrive that coming Saturday (today), so I texted Debbie when we had not heard back from her by Thursday and she spoke with my mom that evening. She explained that she had recently had to put her dog down, hence the delay in communication, but seemed to approve our application after speaking at length with my mom; she said she would just have to check with the shelter Kelly was coming from and would get back to us on Friday. Friday came and Debbie called my mom saying we were good to take Kelly and we would get a call when Kelly arrived on Long Island on Saturday.
So today I got a call from Nancy, another person working for the rescue, around 1:00 PM saying that Kelly and Baxter had just arrived at her house, which seemed odd, because we had not spoken with Debbie about Baxter, as we had made it clear we wanted a female dog. Nancy said that her neighbor had just had to put a dog to sleep, and when the neighbor saw Kelly, she begged to keep her, and Nancy "just couldn't say no," so the neighbor "adopted her on the spot." She then said that Baxter was still available, and we should contact Debbie if we wanted to arrange a meet-and-greet between him and Nadia.
This story sounded super sketchy, and I do not really believe it. I think that Debbie had decided pretty early on that we should not have a second female dog with our current dog, especially since our references never received calls from her, and Nancy was pushing the same "female dogs shouldn't live together" story that Debbie was, even though my mom had already discussed this with Debbie at length, and was trying to push a male dog on us.
Perhaps Debbie and Nancy are correct that a male dog would be better for us, and I understand that it is the job of a rescue to put their dogs with the best possible families. But rather than tell my family this directly, Long Road Home dragged this process out over five days and led us to believe that we were going to take Kelly home, up until the day we were going to pick her up. It would have been easier for everyone involved if Debbie had simply told us on Tuesday that she did not think we would be a good fit for Kelly, rather than insulting our intelligence with dishonest stories.
This whole situation has been a huge let-down, and I am disappointed at how unprofessionally it was handled. I will not seek to foster or adopt from this organization in the future. Given the number of five-star reviews here, people have obviously had good experiences. So, should you decide to try fostering or adopting with Long Road Home, I would suggest that if Debbie or anyone else with them expresses doubts about your suitability for a particular dog or otherwise appears wishy-washy, cease communication with them to avoid getting the same run-around my family and others have gotten. read more