Lisa ROTHFUS
That name can send chills down your spine if you ever dealt with this person. The way she does "reunification therapy" as she calls it, should be a crime. This is NOT family therapy. It's " who's paying me, I'm on your side".
This review is coming from a step mom where I saw a family ripped apart at the hands of this woman. So much that she tore me and my fiancé's relationship apart and I could NO longer take it or hold on to my family.
The torment Lisa and the ex wife put upon us, is a tragic story and the only ones that suffered were the children.
The torment she put my step kids through, the habitual lying and constant bashing we had to endure with our kids was so hard to take and see. Telling the kids we said things we didn't, lying to us and the kids; it's all a lie and her famous phrase is "I don't remember saying it quite that way".
She only cares about what the "paying" parent has to say, their schedule, what they want. The parent that's willing to focus on the kids, she doesn't care. So many times she would yell at me and ex on the phone about how we are the problem. When all we did was support our kids. She told us when they run away and walked 7.5 miles to our house we were not allowed to pick them up in the middle of the night?! The police finally picked them up at 12am, and had me come get them. What kind of person says we can't pick up our kids if the run away in the middle of the night.
We couldn't contact our kids, they Could not contact us, they would barricade themselves in their rooms together because they're so scared of the mother. Lisa knew Their biological mother had hit them, yelled and cursed (the BF as well at their mother's) at them but she told the kids they need to get over it and move on.
After visiting with Lisa and her biological mother more often, my step daughter started having FULL on panic attacks and nightmares to go to therapy or Their mothers house. She's under a psychologist care now.
Our kids were in individual therapy as well with Lisa and Lisa would have conflict with the individual therapists for our kids.
If your looking for a family reunification therapist, a true one, Lisa is NOT it. Run don't walk away from her. She'll use her "charm" at the beginning but then she turns into a different person if she feels your challenging her or her "degree". She likes to control everything.
I even called other REAL reunification therapists and they said what she's trying to do is not standard.
Ask her about the three strikes your kids are out INTENSE REUNIFICATION THERAPY, Ridiculous way of reunification! If the favoring parent and kids communicate, they are punished. By having to go to the non favoring parent longer with NO communication with the favoring parent. And the punishment goes on and on for every strike, until the kids are forced to live with the non favoring parent with very minimal communication with favoring parent for an extended amount of time.
Don't tell Lisa any medical issues about yourself because she tells the other parties involved. Don't give her any personal information. She's there to use it against you and let the other party use it in court against you.
Such a tragic mess she put my ex and his kids through. Apparently it's a crime to be good parents. If you abandon your kids, it's the other parents fault.
Please stay far away from this lady if you want true reunification, seek elsewhere.
I am NOT afraid to review or tell you or anyone what you put us through! YOU tore my family apart!
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