Lara is a healer. Anyone lucky enough to choose to work with her will know what i mean. Some people are therapists who have technical skill, and Lara is that, but not every therapist is a healer. A healer is someone for who every case is new and unique in some sense, and the therapist who is such a healer, is there to learn as much as being there to treat MF issues and related issues. Lara is an open minded learner. She is highly intelligent, she has a creative instinct, she is a very caring person, she is in this work to enjoy helping people and see them improve, she is patient, in my case, i felt that she adapted to the person i was with my personality needs and speed of healing, because she understands the whole person---she 'gets it.' She works with you patiently.
I went to her in early 2014 about a year after i retired from my stressful job. During the last couple of years of my job, i had developed a painful localized area on the back of my neck o the left side. i thought it was work related, from sitting at my desk on the phone or typing, because on the weekends it would improve and then come back by the middle of the week. Over time it got worse and got so it never went away ever, it was always there, it hurt a lot to look over my left shoulder when i was changing lanes while driving. After i retired, i thought the pain would get better, just from the relaxation but it didn't. It was uncomfortable sitting in my reclining chair watching TV or laying on the couch.
i knew i needed therapy. My primary doctor referred me to physical therapy, that was in 2013. The physical "therapy" made the pain so much worse, not just localized but on both sides of my neck and in my shoulders, this was depressing. The PT person didn't tell me that this might happen. i don't know if it was to be expected. i was supposed to have three sessions that week. I went back for the second one and told them about the pain. They didn't seem to attach any importance to it or to show any interest, there was no communication. The second treatment made me feel even worse, worse than i ever felt before, nothing like the worrisome occasional pain on the left side of the back of my neck. This was pervasive, disabling and depressing. The next week i went for the third session and had a different more experienced therapist. She did not hurt me and i don't think i was any worse after the therapy. Not any better either. She communicated well. I thought she was good, but i was burnt out and disillusioned and never went back anymore after that.
I stumbled on MFR by chance, reading amazon book reviews about a book called Waking the Tiger by Peter Levine, and one of the commenters on a review said something about MFR treating this kind of thing, if it's the kind of MFR that uses the John Barnes approach. The Tiger book was about trauma, including physical trauma and its emotional aspect being stored in the body, where the psychological side of past trauma can be healed or helped by working on the body, a new idea to me at that time. So, i got it in my mind that MFR was something i wanted to try, but i checked and found that it's not covered by insurance for the most part, and after i retired i took a 40% pay cut so i was not in a position to jump right into finding a therapist. I did read Yelp reviews about MFR and of all the reviews i read, Lara's stood out for me more than the others, i got a good vibe from what i read, including what she wrote on the page about her practice.
My neck continued to bother me as the months wore on. I got a loan on my house and i decided i would use some money from that to pay for MFR, even though i could not afford it. i believe Lara's fees are fair and appropriate, and typical of fees for this kind of thing. Certainly fair for the hard work involved in the treatment, and the level of training and skill. I started therapy with Lara, she was able to accommodate times that worked for me. What i found was that Lara works very hard and is intensely focused on the work she is doing at all times, she is attentive and asking for feedback as she goes a long. I soon came to see her as someone who more than earns her fee, and while like everyone else, she needs to earn a living, it doesn't seem that that is forefront in her mind when she's working. she works like an artist, it's a labor of love, and she is highly skilled in MFR techniques while having the flexibility of mind and sensitivity to let the effect on the client be the guide of what to do. She takes a leadership role when teaching me things about why the pain is there and what she suggests i do at home.
Progress with the neck pain was gradual at first, the therapy did not cause more pain like the previous one. after about 3-4 months the pain was completely gone and never came back. i was healed. i have other needs for MFR but am realistically not able to afford it. If i was, i would be working with Lara in a heartbeat. read more