Dr Koles is the worst choice for marital therapy you could ever make. Basically ruined my marriage when we had a strong foundation. Took sides immediately. Came up with a list of expectations for my husband to watch for that were "secret". Things like "I didn't love him because I never learned how to use the cappuccino maker that I bought him for his birthday"! If you value your sanity, do not choose him for therapy. read more