Julia was my midwife who cared for me over the course of my pregnancy and birth of my second and third babies, born three years apart. During both pregnancies, I benefited greatly from the one-hour prenatal visits during which Julia provided a level of emotional and medical support far beyond what I initially expected coming from a first birth experience with an HMO. The first pregnancy I went through with Julia's care (my second pregnancy), I encountered some medical complications and a great many emotional complications. I was blown away at how devoted she was to taking care of me. At every point, just as I felt the need for support, my phone would ring or I'd get an email from her asking how I was doing and offering help.
Because of the suspected heart defect in my baby, I made the decision with Julia's support to give birth in the hospital. Julia helped me find a fantastic obstetrician, continued to take care of me fully as my midwife, came to my house in the wee hours when I was in labor and took care of me as I labored partway at home, and then drove my husband and me to the hospital. At the hospital she was exactly what I wanted and needed--inches from my face for hours, crouched next to me in the shower talking me through the pain, making suggestions, and finally talking confidently into my ear as I needed a knowing woman's support to push out a very large baby. It was the most powerful experience of my life and I could not believe that I had done it.
I had a great many problems postpartum, including insufficient milk supply and serious postpartum depression. My husband and I could not believe the level of support Julia provided us through those hardships. She called me almost daily for many weeks, coaching me through a breastpumping schedule, finding me expert lactation consulting, coming to my house many, many times, supporting me by email, inviting me to her home office once to work on breastpumping late at night, coming to my house once and holding the baby for me while I took a shower, talking me through a plan to treat postpartum depression, and even encouraging me to come walk for exercise with her and her friend once. For this, I am loyal to Julia.
My third pregnancy was a much easier, less complicated experience, and it was wonderful to have Julia to return to, this time with her most wonderful apprentice midwife, Nina. Julia and Nina complement one another beautifully. Both are calm, empathic, and possess great senses of humor. My third birth was the home birth I dreamed of, surrounded by my dearest friends, my children, my husband, and in the highly competent care of Julia and Nina. Nina helped me by talking me through some of the hardest points in labor, with her face nose to nose with mine, giving the wisest sort of empathy and encouragement-- that I could do what felt impossible. Julia had the good sense of what I needed and good judgement for what aspect of my labor situation needed adjustment. At a point when I was having a hard time focusing inward with my many friends and family in the room, she suggested I get in the shower in our small bathroom, where it was just me and her and my husband in a small space. I was able to stop putting my energy into calling for help and focus on surrendering into transition. Soon after we emerged from the shower, I laid on my bed and gave birth. It was the most perfect day of my life.
In the week after my baby's birth, when I encountered the same problems with insufficient milk supply once again, Julia supported me in my decision to handle the situation differently this time. When my baby was having a hard time learning to bottle feed, she had me over to her home office, once again late at night, and she sat and worked with my baby until he was able to suck from a bottle. On a day when my nerves were coming apart, at just the time when I needed it, she calmly taught me how to help my baby and she got his belly full of milk. (Have I mentioned my eternal loyalty?!)
Even many months after my birth, as I have encountered one or another health issue related to childbirth and lactation, all I have needed to do is send Julia an email and she responds with advice, information, and love.
I have been told by another midwife that Julia is among the best midwives in Austin. I recommend to anyone in search of a midwife that you put Julia Bower at the top of your list of midwives to interview. read more