Yelp is a rough game these days where attention spans are tiny and its a challenge to have people make the effort to write something good. But its no problem crushing you over not returning a few emails, or saying you will return a call and spacing it in 2021!!! Hilarious they took the time to write that bad review then, well working from home and frustrated with no dog to kick I suppose yelp makes sense.. But following a prolonged forced lockdown, a deadly pandemic, at height of vaccine tensions, and a nation adjusting to a new dystopian reality trying not to strangle each other in lines. Yea I think I stopped reading emails more than once a month a year before that. lol. All reasons I highly recommend therapy to people because having an objective third person in the room listening to your narratives and observing your affect can be tremendously helpful to everyone. An experienced therapist can help you navigate through your blind spots, misperception, bad habits, and help you edit a poorly chosen personal narrative or even a nasty internal dialogue. So I would highly recommend making an appointment. My only suggestion would be to simplify what you do for marketing a bit. Not sure what these all mean and clearly a lot of overlaps. And Master NLP Practitioner? That could mean a lot of things and some problematic. Also you need to add more of you with some photos, pet pics, and personal choices. Never got better advice than be yourself, it has a power to resonate that is magic and authentic. Of course nobody tells you that later your eventual goal is to have a disastrous website that nobody reads and barely works because your practice is way past full. Cheers read more

I cannot say enough about John Boesky! He is absolutely hands down, the kindest, most compassionate therapist I have ever consulted. His genuine attentive listening and curiosity always leaves me feeling heard and understood and his knowledge and practice of internal family systems mode of therapy has opened up a whole new world of self awareness for me. Under his gentle guidance and support for the last year and a half, I have learned how to turn negative thoughts and emotions that have not served me well in the past to more positive and productive ways to navigate life 's challenges, and with John's supportive and non judgmental style and the IFS therapy, I have more joyful positivity and confidence back in my life. I enthusiastically recommend that if you need a highly skilled, compassionate, and PATIENT professional to help you navigate whatever life challenges you are facing. you will find all that and much more in John Boesky. He is truly a gift! read more

I have emailed him and called him for over two weeks now with no response other than "I'll get back to you shortly". Poor business practice A simple, "I am completely booked" would have been fine but I have received nothing. read more

Meh. Me thinks and hopes that there is a better fit of a therapist out there somewhere. A good connection is essential for therapy. And I can form a connection with most people from the clerk at Walmart to the CEO. Not disclosing ANY personal information here, but after several sessions I was not satisfied with my time with John Boesky. I felt unhelped and exposed, not reassured. Worse off than where I started. read more

Working with John changed my life. If you grew up thinking therapy was for "weak" people, you and I probably heard similar things. When I first started meeting with a therapist, I was embarrassed. I didn't tell anyone because I thought my friends would think less of me. I thought strong people didn't need therapy. I soon learned that the opposite is true. Working with a therapist can sometimes bring up things that you never realized about yourself. Being willing to learn about yourself takes courage, especially when what you're learning is that you are hurting another person, or people. It takes strength to expose yourself and your flaws to another person, and create a plan for how to change the things you hate about yourself. Many people think, "I don't need to be fixed," and that's probably true! A therapist is not a fixer. A good therapist will sometimes be a coach, sometimes a teammate, but either way, will always be in your corner; and that is exactly what John has been for me. We hire personal trainers, business coaches, consultants, etc. We see doctors, dentists, chiropractors, and all manner of specialists, but most of us will avoid therapy at all costs. If you wish you had someone to talk to, someone who won't judge you or shame you for your flaws, I unreservedly recommend meeting with John. If you are anything like me, it will change your life. But first, get rid of the belief that therapy is only for the weak! Or, just call your therapist your life coach :) John, I sincerely appreciate you always making me feel important and heard. I appreciate your guidance, support, encouragement, and care. I remember daily many of the things I've learned from you. Listening well and with empathy being at the top of the list, along with realizing when my thoughts/feelings are trying to protect me (even the negative ones). I can not say enough good about what I've gained from working with you. THANK YOU. Zak read more

John has helped me through my divorce this past year and has provided compassion, support and an endless amount of good advice and insight throughout the process. I highly recommend him to anyone going through a difficult time, transition, or life changing event. I never feel judged and always feel like he's in my corner and rooting for my success. He is a true professional in every way and has made a difference in my life. read more

John is a like a wise friend who is there to listen, advise and guide you through the sometimes turbulent situations in life. He is very thoughtful and compassionate as he draws upon his experience and skills to lend perspective and support. He is always generous with his time and he is authentically committed to improving the well being of his clients. read more

John is such a warm soul. I found him very easy to connect with. Not everyone can be a perfect match and certainly would not expect miracles in one session. I saw John many times and I have never felt more heard. I didn't write a review earlier but as I refer a friend to him I looked up his reviews. I am very disappointed to see the negativity in some of his reviews. You know the people who can never be pleased? Anyways, I consider John to be an amazing counselor and always refer people to him. read more

John encourages his clients to write about their experiences on Yelp and knocks down their fees if they do so. Completely dishonest. This imposter of a "life coach" contacted Yelp to have my review removed. I feel it is my absolute duty to inform potentially swindled clients of the scam this individual is running with his "practice". I think this John guy needs a life coach himself! Completely unhelpful and only out to steal a paycheck. I was less than amazed. John provided little guidance on our first meeting, but instead suggested I try absurdly cliche rituals and practices in order to find guidance. If I wanted to be told to drink tea, I would have gone on the internet. Not paid a "life coach". This man is running a scam operation and taking advantage of desperate people who are willing to try anything to get control of their lives. He should be ashamed of such blatant thievery. I was initially hesitant about going a seeing such a young person in practice and unfortunately my prejudices were verified. Completely unresponsive. I shall not return for follow up. Do yourselves a favor and seek a real psychologist, not a "life coach". This guy will stop at nothing! read more

John Boesky, MFT - Counseling & Mental Health Near Me - San Diego, California

John is a warm and sincere therapist, and has a kind soul. My sessions with him over the past year have helped me grow, and his skilled questioning techniques allow me to discover the learning for myself rather than have it dictated for me. I appreciate the intellectual discourse we share, as well as the extra care he takes to make sure that I am doing well. read more

Finding the right Therapist is probably just as hard as getting over an issue. I was lucky enough to strike gold on my first try with John. I have been seeing John for over 5 years and I couldn't be happier. He is honest, knowledgeable, compassionate, and a great listener. He has talked me through some rough times and even just times when i need to talk to someone outside of my circle. He has integrity and makes you believe in yourself and ultimately learn to deal with issues yourself. If you are looking for someone to talk to give John a try you wont be dissapointed. read more

I have been working with John for over a year now and I can't possibly imagine where I would be without him. John creates an environment that is safe to express and be your authentic self and he facilitates that authentic journey right by your side. I have been able to make so much progress and growth under John's guidance and will continue to into the future. His office is a very calming and comfortable atmosphere. John has allowed me to set the pace and he challenges you if you want to be challenged and is a voice of reason when you need to hear something. It's not what you want to hear all the time, it's what you need to hear that allows one to grow. I have been on such a journey over several years and personal growth is at the top of my list. To be a better person today that I was yesterday, to be authentic and to realize my gift to the world is powerful. John has continued to reinforce our work together over and over again. John is very good at recognizing my limiting beliefs and challenging those beliefs when they need to be challenged. I can't continue to grow into the future without taking a look back into my past to see where some of those beliefs formed and now need to change going forward. You can change your map of the world if you want to. I have no doubt that John can help guide you to be your best self possible. He is a good man! read more

John is the upmost best Psychologist in San Diego. He is not only beneficial in all aspects of his sessions but, he allows flexibility when scheduling to meet your needs as a client. He is there to help anyone and everyone who is ready to find the best version of themselves from within. I highly recommend reaching out to him as an individual looking for some sessions or, he also does couples work. There's nothing wrong with wanting to improve your quality of life. It all starts with you... John will be there to provide support through the entire process. You won't be disappointed in his professionalism, respect, knowledge in all approaches and, his energy! read more

I have know John for over five years. He is a skilled therapist with an expertise across a wide range of therapeutic tools to help people both overcome their personal challenges and reach their goals. John helps his clients to become more authentic, congruent, emotionally intelligent, self-loving, and spiritually grounded. John is a wonderful traditional therapist and mentor and also has significant experience in working with athletes looking to achieve their best. I recommend John to anyone seeking a competent therapist. read more

I highly recommend John if you are stuck, in distress, or grieving a loss. As an EMDR practitioner, I look for authenticity and integrity in my own treatment. John helped me move forward after a life-altering loss. His insights and perspectives were obviously informed by years of practice, and he was genuine and compassionate in his approach. Even after seeing John for only a few sessions, I felt lighter, less sad, and ready for new beginnings. Thank you, John! read more

When I first contacted John I was at a very low point and close to losing the family that I love due to anger management issues and depression. When my wife and I first met with John we quickly learned that John has a gift for listening, understanding and guiding. He was able to help both me and my wife understand where the anger was coming from and how to deal with it. He was never judgmental but instead was kind, caring and offered helpful suggestions. I cannot thank John enough for helping to guide me on this journey of self-discovery and improvement and in the process strengthen my marriage and my relationships with my children. My wife and I have benefited from John's experience and wisdom. John is truly an amazing counselor. read more

I've been with Boesky for over a year now and the results have been outstanding. I was referred to him by a friend who thought he could help with some personal/career issues I was having. Wow I was in for a treat since being with Boesky my personal life has never been better and I've went 4-0 in the Ultimate Fighting Championship. Boesky uses a variety of different tools to help you in any way you need and truly cares about his clients. I am truly grateful to have Boesky on my team and would recommend him to anyone. UFC Fighter read more

I cannot express enough gratitude for the compassion, support and faith John has had in me and helped provide me with over the last 7 months since I began meeting with him. John has literally helped me turn my life a completed 180 (starting from the inside out) and I will be forever indebted to him. John's enthusiasm, listening skills, and knowledge far surpasses any of the experiences I have had while being in 'therapy', and I value every moment I have with him. There are many 'attributes' that I love about John...I could literally go on and on...but what I love the most is how non-judgmental he has proven to be. I've encountered therapists who have tried to blame my 'issues' on this or that, but John never has. He has taken the time to really get to know me and has helped me realize my worth. Slowly but surely, John has guided me in bringing back my individuality ...and as he would say my 'free will'. John is engaging, asks probing questions and honestly cares about his clients. I feel so safe with him and can't say enough amazing things about John. I HIGHLY recommend giving him a shot (if you're on the fence)...believe me, it will probably be the best decision you will ever make for yourself. read more

In the time I have seen Dr Boesky he has helped me discover a dimension of myself I know I have always had but was afraid to utilize - My true self. Although it is a constant struggle to fall into old patterns I find myself doing it less often. I always leave Dr Boesky's office finding myself at ease and letting go of a lot of the stresses that plague me. Dr Boesky has showed me that my authentic self is really beautiful and has given me tools in my lifelong quest for self acceptance. I highly recommend Dr Boesky to help anyone in the market for a Therapest to assist you in "knowing thy self ". The best word to describe Dr Boesky's is compassionate. He embodies empathy. You won't be sorry. read more

John Boesky has been an instrumental component of my successful journey through a very dark time in my life. Without going through the personal details, I can attest to John's compassionate and intuitive approach to mental wellness. My journey has been a long one, and all along the way I knew John was in my corner. Having that knowledge, quite honestly, is the reason I am here today to write this review. John makes a genuine connection and creates a safe environment, which allows him to peel back the layers; this leads to a rediscovering of one's authentic self. He has a vast arsenal of techniques in which he can draw from to keep making progress and to address the complexities of getting to the root causes of depression. In the likelihood that you are reading his reviews because you are looking for help in your own life, I highly recommend contacting John. read more

I have been a client of John's for a year now, and I can say with all certainty that he has helped me improve the quality of my life like no other therapist has. I have been seeing therapists, psychiatrists, even dabbled in psycho analysis at a top notch Hospital in Boston, for over ten years. But the improvement I've seen and feel after having worked with John is truly unparalleled. He is a great therapist whose sole purpose is his clients well being. He is focused on creating change and does not dilly dally in the process. He is extremely generous with his time, in many cases exceeding the one hour session time. John has a keen sense of the mind body relationship, and utilizes this in practice. He is a great communicator, healer, and compassionate listener. He sits across from you as an equal, as someone who truly understands what difficulties you are experiencing. I am currently attending individual sessions along with my wife as well as attend a Men's Group that he organizes on a biweekly basis. Together, I have grown as a person, a man, a husband and a father. I have more to learn from John, but I know that he is guiding me in the right direction to achieve all that I can in my life. I recommend John to anyone who is brave enough to take the next step in their lives. John will no doubt help you. He is that good. read more

Wow, suprised to see good reviews for this guy. I saw him once last week with my daugher. She was a gymnast with a mental block. He forgot to take my payment info. I called him back with it, and gave the FSA card number and he either got the number wrong or didn't bill it as healtcare, so instead of just asking, he threatened me with collections if i didn't call him back...mind you, after leaving one message in the morning which i got at 1pm. Really?? Further, he did NOTHING for my daughter with a mental block except recommend drugs for her to take before practice. Oh wait, she flies around flipping on crazy high equipment and she is going to do this groggy, on meds? Felony stupid. Lastly, despite the fact he knew we were coming and exactly why, he hadn't researched the sport at all and we basically spent an hour explaining it to him. Mind you, my child wouldn't say a word to him and he couldn't bring her out at all. Great skill for a psycholgoist. All this for the pleasure of 150.00 bucks....what a WASTE OF TIME. read more

I copied this from an email I sent John: ( I wish to thank you for your goodwill,heart,dedication,intelligence,insight,intuition,advise,professionalism,warmth , care,service,and the endless charity that you have provided my family and I, even tolerance of my character-I like the support and comfort of your couch too.) as for this review:I raised my self in the streets of L.A. in the 80s,but I never cared for gangs, criminals, and my Godfather was L.A.P.D, yet police would pull me over for being out late often and just release me when they realized I wasn't what they thought ,and I went on to have a successful career in law and and healthcare,I rarely mention my first career in law enforcement in the civilian world. In my view,the gangs won in L.A. and I retired in San Diego where I love to serve the military sick and ret patient whom served. I wrote about my history,so you would know how well rounded John is and how easily and expertly he can deal with all walks of life and any issues you may have,from Divorce to Drinking,troubled relationships or dreams,death to life,GO SEE HIM,HE CAN MAKE YOUR LIFE 1000% BETTER! even if you just need wise counsel or a great friend with awesome advise and experience,John is that for You and I read more