Have never even thought about doing something like this before but it's necessary if it can help anyone else from having a similar experience.
Recently my (kind, compassionate, intellegent) internist of many years moved to Florida and, in a letter, referred Dr. Ian Lustbader to those of us left P.C. (primary care) free.
It took 2.5 months to get a first appointment....I needed to establish a relationship with the new doctor...I needed refills on RXs and, oh yeah, I'm human and I have some physical issues that need to be addressed...you know, stuff you go to doctors for...
I found Mr. Dr. to be dismissive, arrogant and not a good listener. I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt because many doctor's are over worked and are expected to see multiple dozens of patients,daily...
No more excuses to validate the exceptionally bad , shockingly hurtful, unprofessional behavior of an this M.D. Not after today.
Returned from a bussiness trip to China on 9/16 (Thursday)...got sick 3 days into a 2 wk trip. (think I have a parasite) Took a bunch of herbal remedies given to me by vendors while I was away but nothing helped. On 9/13 I emailed Dr. Lustbader's office explaining that I had been ill for many days (in CHINA) , was returning to NY on 9/16 and was hoping to see the dr. on the 17th (Friday) before the weekend. I was informed that 9/22 @ 2:00PM was the best they could do. I wrote back explaining that I was sick (in CHINA) and really was hoping to see the dr. before the 22nd.
The next email i received revealed that the dr. wasn't in on Fridays and to, "call when you land"...I called repeatedly on Friday...got an answering machine telling me that no-one could get to the phone...that office hours were Mon-Fri, 8:30-4:30...then it just rang...no one picked up...I was still feeling really sick, so I called Dr. Eng, a smart, personable, caring, Gastroenterologist who'd done my colonoscopy almost 5 yrs. years earlier and explained my problem. Without hesitation, I was given an immediate appointment.
I needed a referral for Dr. Eng but still couldn't get anyone from Dr. Lustbader's office on the phone. Finally, the 'answering service' picked up and I left a message that I needed the Dr. to call in a referral...
Still sick, today, Monday....going on 2 weeks, now...Dr. Eng wants to do a proceedure called a SIgmoidoscopy, this afternoon. I couldn't get through to Dr. Lustbader's office (called 6x...busy) so I sent an email asking him to, please, send the referral.
Dr. Lustbader called me at home, angry...yelling at me, saying he did not know Dr. Eng and would NOT give me a referral. I explained that he had been unavailable to me...that I'd emailed his office from China...He continued yelling at me that he was available, that he would NOT give me a referral and told me to "get another internist"!
Sick and, now, hysterically sobbing I sent him an email saying, "Shame on you" and that I was reporting him to Oxford...which I did. I filed a formal complaint...
I then received a call from a flustered Dr. Eng.... Dr. Lustbader had called him and yelled at him, too...saying , "i don't know you and I will not give you a referral"...Out of line...unprofessional.
Both Dr. Eng and I have never....NEVER....experienced anything (even) remotely like this...
When I called Oxford (still sobbing) to file the complaint, they gave a referral for the procedure.
Meanwhile, I need an internist, preferably an NYU Medical Ctr. affiliate. If anyone can reccommend someone, I'd be grateful.
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