My Husband and I drove to one of their events to meet their adoptable pets. We already had a pet in mind that we wanted to meet but we were not in a hurry. Excited, yes. In a rush, no. We want the pet to fit us and a pet that would be comfortable with us.
We met Cathy at the event and she encouraged us to take the pet that we wanted in the bonding room. She'd also told us that the process usually takes about a week to complete between the application, home visit and evaluation, which I initially thought was a bit lengthy but hey, That's the process and having her say that gave us an idea of what we could expect.
When we finally decided we wanted this one dog, we spoke to the foster. She asked questions, we asked questions. We told her that we've both had pets and that I've always had dogs, growing up. I told her that I have 3 family dogs back home that I had to leave because I moved to Durham. After a while, She disclosed that this dog is her favorite foster.
We started the adoption process, sent the application as we left the event. After 2 days, we received a response or "clarifications" about our application. They felt more like she antagonized my "non-negotiables" about a dog's characteristics by telling me that this breed I was adopting was by nature, "chewers" and "barkers." Wait a minute, Aren't all dogs barkers and chewers?!
And as mentioned, I've had dogs all my life. Training is key to having a peaceful life with happy, loving pets. Also, she asked me where "back home" was. Were they going to factor my being an immigrant, my heritage and upbringing to wether or not I could adopt this dog?
The week was ending so I emailed the foster, requesting for an update. Politely. If I may add. But then, *crickets*. Days later, she responds telling us that she was looking at another applicant who works from home. We knew, going in that it wasn't a first come first served basis. But We thought it was extremely inconsiderate for them to keep us hanging if we didn't have a chance. Specially knowing that the process was only supposed to take a week.
If you are in the Triangle, or in NC and you think a home inspection is excessive and GENUINELY WANT TO CARE for a dog, go somewhere else where they value your time and intentions in adopting a dog more than the amenities that the dog is going to have. read more