As a once great President said before taking on invading aliens, "We will not go quietly into the night." And in my understanding, I will not take any bullshit.
Some might say to just let it go, but when silence is kept, and accountability is not called for, people will continue to be kinda horrible.
Thus begins our blueberry picking story.
In '22 we visited HHF with our homeschool group. Rows of blueberries, sheep, chickens and ducks and even a cute little swing to keep our gaggle of children entertained. It was a pleasant day and we decided to make it a yearly occurrence.
July of '23 we picked blueberries, Old Farmer even helping out the parents as we picked. The kids had long since abandoned the boring task of picking in the hot sun and had retreated to the front yard full of shade trees, Redbuds to be exact.
We filled our buckets and headed out.
The next day I open Facebook and see pictures and complaints of damaging homeschoolers and their parents who were ignoring them chatting in the blueberry rows. Extremely confused, I see that one of the redbud limbs had a giant crack in it and there were leaves all over the ground.
Obviously Old Farmer was upset so my fellow moms and I crafted an apology message. That was completely ignored and the response was basically the kids are destructive brats and he won't allow homeschool groups on his property any longer.
1. The kids were playing on a tree, for that limb to be able to crack so easily, it must be unhealthy. If the kids were as horrible as he portrays them they would have heard the crack and continued to try and break the very thick branch off fully. Instead, they left the tree alone because they realized the problem.
2. There is a confederate flag that greets you, waving proudly. Take that as you will.
3. He had already made up his mind that a group of kids are trouble. As they were watching the chickens one of them squawked loudly and instantly he scolded the kids. When in fact it was one of the ducks coming up that scared the chicken.
4. He complained about his kids and grandkids to us moms as we picked, that they didn't know the meaning of hard work and that they sold their share of the land and moved away.
The problem here is that instead of coming to me directly (he had multiple ways to contact me) he decided to take his very passive aggressive complaints to his FB page and followers saying "I could say more." Very cowardly. What proceeded then was a pile on of how our generation lets our kids do whatever they want. Children are not allowed to climb trees or play with leaves. They need to be seen and not heard.
No longer do children have safe spaces to explore, play and make mistakes. Instead they are seen as destructive little monsters. The "snowflake" generation is raising kids to be empathetic, kind, and recognize how to process their emotions. I will gladly take the title of snowflake if it means I am raising emotionally mature children, not ones who cowardly and cryptically vent to their friends. My reviews were in the open so that when this happens to another family they will know they are not to blame.
I write this review to give some insight into the type of person Old Farmer is. There will be people with glowing reviews (ours was last year) and then there are reviews that show the true nature of an Old Farmer.
If you wish to blueberry pick there is Cloud 9 Farm in Fletcher- Her blueberry rows are triple the size of HHF. read more