With time to spare, I took a drive through Westminister Cemetery in Bala Cynwyd. I came across a monument for Hayes Mechanics Home. My mother lived there (Hayes Manor) for many years. My mother had many ailments (both physical and mental). Finding a suitable placement was difficult and our initial attempts were not pleasant.
When my mother moved into Hayes things changed. Her health improved, she met new friends, and after a few weeks she informed us that our daily visits, while nice, weren't necessary.
The one thing that my mother loved the most about Hayes was the staff. They treated my mother with the greatest of care and respect. From the Administrator, to the cafeteria staff, to the guard who kept her safe, Hayes was exceptional!
It has been over twenty years since my mother passed away, and discovering that monument brought back great memories. read more