Serious Monkey Business alert- Don't let them make a (Mail-) Chimp out of you! "Stealing personal data in the name of Jesus since God knows when...."
While it is true that this organization provides a lot of community service, it is ALSO true that they data mine your information and sell it to Mail Chimp & List-Manage, who then aggregate it and resell it. All of this happens WITHOUT your permission- without even so much as a "By your leave."
How did they get our info? We dropped in for a visit (about 2 years ago) and dropped our kid off at their kids program. It seems that they will not admit a child without your phone number and email and whatever else. Uh oh, the service is going to begin in 3 minutes and we're kind of stuck. So, we SPECIFICALLY asked them NOT to distribute, rent, sell, share, give away, etc. our information. Of course, they Promised (wink wink, cross your fingers behind your back).
Within hours of attending, my mailbox had its first spam message. Clearly, there had been a whoops (or so I thought). After all, how could this possibly have happened so fast? Somebody must have manually entered and uploaded our data. Ok, mistakes and miscommunications happen. Surely this was a good-will mistake.
Solution? Remove us from your mailing list & computer. End of problem.
Next week, MORE Fair Oaks specific SPAM. Ok, mistakes can happen twice in a row, No problem, we'll just nicely remind them of their 2 mistakes (broken promises in actuality) and ask them to remedy the situation. What's not to like?
More and more spam, more and more pleading to fix this (implied predicate to complete the sentence).... They smile and agree to everything you ask. (They are just telling you what you want to hear, like a used car salesman.)
Time for a phone call because clearly the person we spoke with is unable to fix this manually. No problem, we'll just ask for someone who CAN fix it. After all, no Christian organization worthy of the name would ever INTENTIONALLY do this, right? (Wrong.)
Months later, there is still more spam. Hmm, maybe I should write a Yelp review. Nah, I don't want to ever give a church a hot foot. I wouldn't want it done to me. Ok, I'll let it ride.
About 2 years later with continuing spam all the while, I check my mail. More spam- Two YEARS later.... At this point, I'm desperate. This place is a barnacle on my ship. It's a parasite and it REFUSES to be removed from the hull.
Fine. Now it's time to perform the Watchman on the Wall duty. (Confer with Isaiah 62:6 and ff. "On your walls, O Jerusalem, I have appointed watchmen; All day and all night they will never keep silent. You who remind the Lord, take no rest for yourselves...." NASB) Because they refuse to fix the problem, I can at least warn others. (See Ezekiel 33 in its entirety but in particular, focus on verse 6 "But if the watchman sees the sword coming and does not blow the trumpet and the people are not warned, and a sword comes and takes a person from them, he is taken away [a]in his iniquity; but his blood I will require from the watchman's hand.'") Hence, this review, albeit 2 years too late. And for my tardiness, I humbly beg your forgiveness. I honestly thought they would keep their word.
Your Application and Action steps? Think twice before associating with this organization. Clearly, Good Faith (i.e., keeping promises in good faith) is NOT a priority here. There are LOTS and LOTS of other churches in the area. I'm not suggesting any church in particular, just anything OTHER than Fair Oaks.
"But I like the young Pastor. He seems to be truly on fire for the LORD!" Or "I'm already a regular and I hate the idea of pulling up roots and changing churches." I understand BOTH of those things. So at minimum, what you can do is to NEVER, EVER share your information with these people- not ever.
In conclusion, consider this: I do not have a particularly thin skin. If I, a member of the Christian church at large can eventually get abraded this severely, just consider how non-Christian or pre-Christian visitors might feel. One taste of this abuse and they might well resolve to NEVER associate with any Christian or any church ever again. (That's the potential damage that can result.) Clearly, this behavior meets (or comes close to meeting) the definition of Chillul HaShem (bringing discredit to the Name of God). Chillul HaShem is a pretty difficult thing to do. Instead, we should strive for Kiddish HaShem (sanctifying or blessing or bringing credit to the Name of God).
Better yet, don't share your personal data or contact information with any church, any business, or anyone EVER at any time for any reason.
Oh, and don't forget to forgive them. For the sake of your own peace of mind, remember to forgive them and let God take care of retribution.
You have been duly warned. If after reading this, if you ignore the warning thus placing yourself in harm's way, you will have only yourself to blame, pursuant to the Ez. 33, etc. read more