So I'd done a review somewhere after my first visit. On the way our i was asked if I'd give a 5 star review and was given a QR code to submit that review...so they really wanted that 5 star review posted, lol.
And I did...at the moment under "pressure", i did it. But realistically, after stewing on it for a while...there was something (a couple of things) that really didn't sit right with me...
Everyone was "professionally friendly" enough...front desk was the most "naturally" friendly and attentive, which was good.
My hygienist...drawing a blank on her name (I think started with an "L", while she was professional and TECHINCALLY "friendly", it felt overly stiff, ingenuine, and ridgid.
Was as if she was "going through the motions" of being friendly, but not genuine feeling comfortable in actually being NATURALLY friendly...not sure if that makes sense...
You know how you can tell when someone is just nice and easy to talk to and when they are comfortable with dealing with people...well this girl, again, she was nice the whole time, but it never felt NATURAL.
Was stiff, and cold, while still being professional.
So am i asking too much?
Maybe...but having gone to dentists my whole life where people are NATURALLY friendly, the difference is huge and very noticeable. So is it a bad thing? Not necessarily and certianly won't be a bad thing for some patients, but IMO, does that contribute to a 5 star rating??? Absolutely not in my book...but only in retrospect do i see that.
The OTHER thing...and THIS is probably why, after thinking about it, that i likely will NOT return to this location, despite it being within walking distance from my home and doing saturday appts which are both ***HUGE perks that i WAS very excited about***...
But when the dentist came...he too suffered from the same "overly rigid professionalism" that seemed cold and scripted and ingenuine...so there's that, but the thing that I didn't think about until after the fact, is that being my first dental visit in a couple of years, just recently having gotten new insurance... there was supposedly LOTS to do... like a LONG list of things they wanted to do... and
1) I don't think the situation is that bad...it felt like they were making mountains out of mole hills...because out of the blue, i needed a deep clean, 3 crowns (which obviously involve root canals = $$$$$$$$) and then was presuming to tell me i NEED to have my final wisdom tooth removed that is causing ZERO issues (no impaction no nothing)....
But anyway... that in theory still that could be all fine and good...like i said a couple of years, so MAYBE those things ARE NEEDED. But you know why i say MAYBE????
Well the main thing I DON'T like about this office,
2) is that ALL My previous dentists, have (at least had) a set up with their monitor IN THE PATIENT's VIEW, so they can actually POINT AT IMAGES OF XRAYS & SHOW ME the issues they found, and I could SEE WITH MY OWN EYES the degree of severity, and validate that what they are SAYING, I ACTUALLY NEEDED, versus just listening to the laundry list of money making procedures they now listed off for me with ZERO evidence of why I even needed them (pertains mostly to the crowns, fillings, root canals, etc).
EVERY dentist i've been to before in my adult life, had that monitor and SHOWED ME, and pointed to everything they found so i could see, and validate, and agree and make the EDUCATED choice to proceed or not proceed, prioritize what to do first, put on the side burner, etc...
But at this place, for like the next visit they wanted to immediately start with everything without ever once SHOWING ME what they claimed to have found.
Not saying they're lying, per se, I'm sure they are on the up and up in that regard, but when they are telling me i have like $5k in crowns and crap, SHOWING, for me, is CRITICAL.
I don't know how easy it is for them to adjust the locations of the monitors so they can actually have an interactive SHOW and tell session and point and explain with detail their findings, but if they can, THAT would be the BIGGEST thing I would personally need to see changed before considering going back.
So for now i'm going to check my previous dentist under my old insurance and see if they are in network with my new one...they're in castro valley and DON'T do saturdays, so that all SUCKS, BUT, the experience is night and day... there it feels like a NEIGHBORHOOD dentist should feel...NATURALLY friendly, ...kinda like CHEERs...the show...
"Where everybody knows your name
And they're always glad you came
You wanna go where people know
People are all the same
You wanna go where everybody knows your name"
THAT vibe, is completely absent at this place that technically is MY neighborhood dentist... but it does NOT feel like it.
So again, NOT horrible, but definitely NOT 5-star worthy in my book. read more