The night shift front desk clerk named Tabitha said to me "how about you suck my d**k!!" after I advised her to not escalate things with some guys at the bar for being too loud.I'm going to go step by step of what just happened to me at the Double Tree Hotel in Evansville, Indiana.My wife and I were on a business trip and she got the hiccups sometime after 12:15am, so I went to buy some snacks for her at the front desk. I buy $20 worth of snacks from the front desk where I meet Tabitha for this first time. This will not be the last time I interact with Tabitha.With my over priced snacks in my hands, I stopped by the bar to ask the bartender for peanut butter, because I know that's one of my wife's weird remedy things to eat to help fix her hiccups. While I was waiting on the overwhelming nice bartender to get me some peanut butter in the kitchen, a few guys were at the bar slapping on the bar-top while they were laughing and having a good time. I didn't notice anything of it, because it's at a bar for gods sake, until Tabitha comes running around the corner yelling "stop slapping that bar top or we're going to have some problems!!" and bulked up at them like she was about to fight them or something.I was in between her and the guys at the bar, so I looked at Tabitha and said "how about we de-escalate this situation and not escalate things, right now you're doing nothing but escalating things" she then bulked up to me and said to "mind my own business" I then said "let's calm down a little so this doesn't escalate to something bad, that's all" as soon as I said that, the bartender comes running out of the kitchen with 2 small cups of peanut butter in her hand and screaming "I've got your peanut butter sir!!" like an angel straight from heaven. I then looked at Tabitha and said "you see that, that's how you de-escalate things" (which I know doesn't really make sense but that's all I could think of to say to Tabitha in the heat of the moment) and walked away from Tabitha to receive the peanut butter from the sweet angel bartender.I then go to the elevator and while I wait for the elevator to open I hear from Tabitha across the lobby and bar screaming "ok boss!!" and "ok boss man!!" I was confused and said "huh... What?" she yelled back to me saying "ok boss man, since you think you're the boss of me now!!" and remember this is across the lobby and the bar when she is screaming this at me. I replied back with "yeah it looks like you need a boss" (again, I know it doesn't make sense and I know it wasn't a good come back but it was past 12:30am at the time).She thens screams on top of her lungs, when there's about 10 people between her and I and said "HOW ABOUT YOU SUCK MY D**K!!!"I then became a Karen and demanded a manager, she said she was the manager. I said back to her "nope, there is no way you're the f*****g manager, I want the number to your manager NOW!"She refused to give me the manager's number or any information and while I was demanding the manager's information, a bodyguard was there telling me "sir you need to go to your room now" and I laughed and said "nah, this chick just told me to suck her d**k, I'm not leaving until I get the real manager's information" then the sweet angel bartender comes running up apologizing to me about what just happened and gave me a card with the manager's information and told me I can talk to him at 7:00am. I took the card and looked at the front desk clerk and said "and what is your name?" She said "it's Tabitha, it says it right here on my name tag". I looked at it and I said "ohh look, Tabitha, it says 'Desk' below your name, not manager like you said you are, you're white trash" and I walked off. Should a front desk clerk say "how about you suck my d**k" under any circumstances?
The next morning I talked to the supervisor to let her know what happened and what was said. She was very professional and told me she heard about this situation already and will look into videos.
I didn't want anything in return from the hotel because my stay there was actually pleasant for the most part. read more