Our family was so lucky and grateful to have worked with our wonderful doula from Bay Area Night Doulas: Dorin Chromoy. She took care of our daughter right from the day we got home from the hospital until her eighth week, coming several nights/week from 10pm-6am.
During that time, it really felt like Dorin was part of our little expanded family. She would come each night and talk to us for a few minutes about our daughters day, and give us advice about any questions we had. From the get go, besides the obvious help of allowing us to sleep uninterrupted for a few nights a week, she was so knowledgeable about everything related to the fourth trimester, from baby spit up and sleep to helping me latch in the early days. She helped us through a rough patch in the early days when our baby needed to go into the NICU, providing support and kindness and also helping her to relearn how to latch after she got used to faster flow nipples in the ICU.
She also gave us lots of great recommendations on baby items to help our baby be more comfortable and sleep better, including items for gas, sleep swaddles and bottle nipple sizing to help with feeding. She also helped give us tips on how to instill good sleep habits in our daughter, including getting her lots of sunlight during the day and providing us with example sleep routines when she was a few weeks older. She also helped to clean bottle and pump parts before she left which was so helpful! She also obviously loved our daughter and was so gentle and patient with her all the time.
Dorin was also extremely respectful, never pushy and only provided advice and information while still respecting our decisions as parents. I also appreciated that due to COVID, she was very proactive about being vaccinated! I definitely felt like she was protecting us as a family, especially our newborn daughter.
We would text her constantly throughout that time with questions that dumbfounded us from simple things like "is this little dot on her skin normal?!" To much more serious questions like "what can we do to help her sleep better?" Every time she would come back with clear, knowledgeable answers backed up with research and science which helped us understand how to proceed. She helped us instill the earliest forms of sleep habits for our daughter and now she's basically sleeping through the night at 10 weeks! Even now after she has stopped coming, we still text her with questions about our daughters sleep and feeding routines and she always takes the time to reply. We really feel like we lucked out with Dorin!
We honestly were not sure in the beginning if we should hire doulas to help, but honestly this is the best investment we could have made not just in our sleep but also in our education as first time parents. We highly recommend Dorin and all the doulas at BAND for any parents who want emphatic, warm and knowledgeable "professional moms" to help in their fourth trimester!! read more