Deja Vu Love Boutique

Locally owned & operated

13 years in business

I wish the selection was a little bit bigger but Morgan was awesome and super helpful.read more

Walking in I was a lil nervous, don't usually go to these stores often. As soon as we walked in we…read morewere greeted by the friendliest employee. I believe his name was Kaz (was wearing a big bang shirt "soft kitty") and He knew everything like the back of his hand. He was thorough with all information about each thing we were interested in or looking at. He answered all and any questions we had and was very professional about everything and truthful about all "experiences" with each item. We had such a pleasant experience when we went and will be coming back very soon! We have so many punch cards lol.

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Pleasures & Treasures

Great Selection of Educational Videos for consenting adults. Educational and Fun Toys for Adult…read moreplay Solo or as a couple. Also other Bedroom enhancement lube , Stiffness support remedies.

Needed to pick up a gift for my friend hosting a play party. It was tricky since she doesn't like…read moretoys. There was an abundance of options from lingerie, lube, games and toys. We opted for a dice game, pasties and small flogger. The owner Tim, said hello and wrapped our gift in tissue paper for us. Great prices and value for quality products and wide selection. My only qualm was they stock my brand of lube but not the kind I use. Great location. Will be back soon. Always love supporting veteran owned businesses!

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Fantasyland

4.3(32 reviews)

7.8 mi•Lomita

Me and the wife saw this store in the corner and decided to go inside and see the fun toys,…read morelingerie, and other adult accessories that this store had to offer. Parking was good and it had its own large parking area. The business itself is easy to find since it is located right in the corner of the intersection. Once arriving we were quickly greeted by the employees and were asked if we needed any help just give them a call. There was everything there at this adult store. From videos, to toys, to a plethora of lingerie. We loved the entire store and were in awe of all the toys they had! It was truly exciting to see! Once we were done walking around we decided to get some accessories for me and the wife and of course some amazing lingerie. While on the Yelp app you get a 15% store discount, so be sure to utilize that awesome discount. Will definitely come back sooner or later. Great employees and so much to choose from!

I wasn't even there for 3 minutes and the creep at the front deck already on me talking about take…read morethe lube out your pocket like excuse me ? Tf do I look like trying to steal ? How uncomfortable it's bad enough I'm a woman in there with 2 men how fuckin uncomfortable I just left .

13.5 mi•Core, Gaslamp, East Village

Great company t-shirts represents the x-spot, company, United states and are local stores in San Diego

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Front entrance

HUSTLER Hollywood

4.2(203 reviews)

•$$$

Discounts available

LGBTQ friendly

Came here to grab a Halloween costume and some accessories. It's like an adult version of Target…read morelol. So much fun looking around. Pick up some cute sets while I was there. The staff is amazing! Friendly, helpful, and knowledgeable. Parking is a little tricky unless you want to pay there is a lot right across the street. Otherwise, you may have to walk a bit. Well, worth the stroll downtown!

This is a nice place to get your sex toys, lubes, and cute lingerie for when your feeling playful…read more They do have a few BDSM toys, but nothing heavy. I like wood paddles fo my play. The store was really clean, and the employees are helpful.

HUSTLER Hollywood - shoes, lingerie and novelties boutique

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BeYummy

5.0(4 reviews)

13.3 mi•East Village

I bought two sets and they are beautiful!!! Amazing quality of fabric and stitching. I will…read moredefinitely order again to treat my self to something sexy and elegant!!!

It's wonderful, high quality work! It fit so good that I can't feel it. Just remembering that I…read morelook so sexy !) 5 !!!

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Aphrodite's Closet

4.5(68 reviews)

6.2 mi

This place is a magical WONDERLAND of BEAUTIFUL & unique clothing! I spent weeks looking for…read moreCoachella outfits online & I wish I'd come here sooner! Pam was SO helpful & kind, helping me find items but not pushy at all (perfect combo). I had no idea they make the gorgeous pieces they sell! The quality is amazing & prices are cheaper than similar (high quality) festival clothing online. I got a beautiful black lace skirt and beautiful matching top with long arms, and flowers on the black lace. Gorgeous and I can't wait to wear it! The items are one of a kind because they are made on site so you can really show off some beautiful statement, artistic pieces of clothing if you like that kind of thing, which I do! Their jewelry is beautiful... Looks exactly like items I saw on Etsy for five times the price! I can't wait to come here next year while before Coachella so I can get all my outfits here. It really is a hidden jam in San Diego! I'd highly recommend it for anyone going to costume parties or festivals!

Sales person didn't pay any attention to us. Limited selection and was not super impressed.read more

A pair of favorites, spilt top which comes in solid and mesh fabrics, and our High Waist shorts.

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1 piece, lacey underwear, multi colored panties

Bad Kitty Photography

4.9(235 reviews)

5.4 mi

I had a shoot recently. I received very clear instructions on how to prep for the shoot and what I…read moreneeded to do the day of shoot and what to expect. Cinnamon did my photos and it's OBVIOUS she has decades of experience. Her personality was so vibrant but calming. The first questions she asked were about my comfort level, what I was ok with showing and not ok with showing. Asked a lot of questions about what my goal for the shoot would be. It made me feel very safe and comfortable. She had me get in my first outfit and pointed out things I never would have thought of like deodorant on my underarms. She gave clear direction on posing and made the whole process so much fun. I forgot I was there for a photoshoot. It seemed effortless for her. She took time after my shoot to answer any questions I had about the next steps in the process. After the shoot I got the edited photos 3 days later which is a crazy turn around time. The album came with very clear instructions on how to view and select photos or packages for purchase. I was also given multiple reminders to make my selections before the cut off time which my ADHD brain really appreciated. I would (and have) recommend them to anyone looking for this type of shoot and will probably book in the future.

Multiple pages, so updating where I wrote a review prior as well…read more In May 2025, I booked my first session with Bad Kitty photography and loved it so much. I checked if they were touring again and when I saw a session two days before my birthday, I took it as a sign from the universe that I needed to book another one. Be rude not to! Plus, I've been working hard on my self image and confidence. I'm not lying when I say they helped me be able to say I'm beautiful out loud and believe it. Stacey was amazing the first time, and I looked forward to see if I worked with her again or if it would be one of the other two amazing ladies at Bad Kitty. This time in September 2025, I had the pleasure of working with the wonderful Madison! The bar was set pretty high by Stacey as she was phenomenal with my sensory issues for makeup/hair and talked me through the poses to make me feel comfortable. Madison hit this out of the park! Heck, I'm not just beautiful, I am SEXY is this recent shoot! Wowza madam, you captured some truly stunning photos! I am still blown away by some of them. Would I book again? Heck yeah!!! I can't recommend them enough if you are looking for a boudoir photographer.

May 2025

The only review appropriate photo I have

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Photo by Madison

Slender Bodies

2.5(8 reviews)

1.7 mi•Cajon Heights

I was nervous about going in here because of all the negative reviews about bad customer service,…read morebut didn't want to drive to Chula Vista for a faja. The young lady working today was super helpful and even talked me out of buying a faja that would potentially impact my recovery from lipo. I'm glad I gave this place a chance, you should too!

I'm visiting from out of town and Lizbeth was AMAAAAZINGG!!! Very very patient with me and my slow…read moresister! We tried on about 10items and not once did she complain. But, greeted us both with a bubbly smile ready to help us!! You guys need to be on social media (Instagram) to give more presence online! Great store! Thanks again Lizbeth

Commpression garment

Shape and contour every part of your body

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Lift your breast

Video Exchange

5.0(7 reviews)

6.7 mi

Great store. The staff is friendly. Very affordable merchandise. There's something for everyone…read morehere. They have a good selection of products from toys, DVDs, to lingerie.

Great store! Lots of toys. Lea is very helpful and makes you feel comfortable! Can't speak for the…read moreteeter I hear is good also .

Many choices of lube here. Flavored, water based, silicone based & some hybrids too

Great selection of lingerie

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Videos and adult toys

Torrid

3.8(28 reviews)

1.0 mi

I was in desperate need of new clothes. After visiting a seamstress, I called ahead to see if…read moreTorrid carried my bra and pant sizes. I needed the essentials and felt completely overwhelmed. Heather was incredibly kind over the phone, and when I arrived, I was in complete shambles. I hadn't been to a clothing store in years and was so worried I wouldn't find anything that fit. Over the past year or so, I've gained a significant amount of weight and felt hopeless. As soon as I walked in, Heather greeted me with a warm smile and I broke down in tears. Embarrassed and sobbing, I was met with nothing but kindness. Heather quickly found me a seat, handed me tissues, and gently reassured me that it was okay to cry. She gave me a moment to gather myself, and when I was ready, she asked what I needed. I explained that I was looking for bras and pants and apologized for my emotions. I told her that with the weight gain, none of my clothes fit anymore and my confidence had taken a serious hit. Heather got to work right away. Though the bra we found was close, it wasn't quite the right fit. Before going on her break, she introduced me to Ariel, who stepped right in and asked thoughtful questions my favorite colors, preferred sleeve lengths, and general style to get a sense of what I liked. When I mentioned I was worried they might not have my size, she immediately did a full sweep of the store, searching high and low to find pieces she thought would work for me, even digging through the clearance racks to help me stay within my budget. By the time Heather returned, it felt like a perfectly choreographed dance. They worked together seamlessly while still attending to other customers bringing me item after item, taking the "no" pieces and swapping them with new options until we found what worked. It was like having a personal styling team that genuinely cared. I ended up with a whole new wardrobe, including the essentials I came in for, and even a few unexpected favorites. But what I didn't expect and what I truly needed most was to be reminded that I'm still beautiful in the skin I'm in. Heather and Ariel helped me see that it's okay to embrace my body as it is right now. I left not just with new clothes, but with renewed confidence and a deeper sense of self-love. Thank you, Heather and Ariel. You truly have no idea how much I needed you both that day. Torrid, these two women are absolute gems.

I have purchased from Torrid for 18 years now and I am very happy with the quality and sizing of…read moretheir clothes. I wish they would open one in Sierra Vista, AZ. I miss going into the store to see how they have the clothes styled. The closest one to me now is 1.5 hours away. They are great about returning items. Their sizes range from medium size 10 to 5 or 6x. Great style also in larger sizes.

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Rosey B.

1 month ago

I loved working here but ur guys location of management did me wrong , I will be letting people know not to apply here . Doesn't pay much either, I heard ur location general manager getting sued also for unlawful termination anyways , I hope u get a better general manager and managers kb and Brett are great managers but I got recordings of Barbie yelling at me and made me cry not just her but other employees notice to evidence and Jamie it's the one who made up it is what is and done it done with no explanation I would love explanation because I've been working for over a year or more now and what's messed up knowing I needed this job and you guys saying you are family organization or family oriented company but it's not , I'm been a supervisor/general manager at a different company and it's very disorganized and disrespectful management bunch of bugs and roaches and spiders and rats and blaming other for they own business and company is wrong too. read more

Secret P.

15 years ago

sucky staff sucky toys sucky cheap purses marked up way too high ...its a rip off. this place is so trashy. what kind of manager walks threw the store with a cigrette lit? taking shots behind the counter and letting the staff be super rude to people? if i wanted to smell smoke id go to a casino.there was a bum coming in and out of this place. i even saw someone trying to steal thingsd. where is the security here? this is not a place i would go to again or reccomend anyone to. i even tried returning a shirt that had torn lace fabric that i didnt see when i bought it and they blame me for the damage and i walk out of there with nothing but the feeling i was scammed. much like a high school enviorment. so sad. read more

Kyle G.

8 years ago

Went in today to to check out some items, and I wasn't too sure about what I was looking for. April and I started talking, and she helped me discover exactly what I was looking for. We spent about an hour exploring all of the toys I was interested in. She knew a lot about all of the different types, and showed me what each one was good for what I wanted specifically. If you aren't sure what brand/model your looking for, just ask, they will help you with no judgement! read more

Rebekah L.

115

10 years ago

This place is amazing. The workers are extremely helpful and knowledgeable about their products. The place also has EVERYTHING, and definitely has things for everyone's price range. The place also has a bunch of little clearance items that are epic. Richard and Jehnna were really helpful associates to come to, and def don't make you feel uncomfortable at all like other places I've been. read more

Maribel G.

14 years ago

Awesome place. Great customer service as well, very knowledgeable employees to help with all your curiosities and questions. Love this place makes my love life a lil more exciting and I never feel uncomfortable when I walk in. My husband loves and enjoys all my lil goodies I bring home. Thank you all for your professionalism . read more

Jasmine J.

8 years ago

Went here yesterday with my sister. They were so helpful with finding the correct product and very friendly. Didn't make it awkward at all. I do plan on coming back sometime next week to look at a few other things. I'll highly recommend this place to friends looking to put some spice in the bedroom or just for fun. read more

Emily R.

1 year ago

Love going there ever since the customer service representative came up to me when I was buying some thongs and a butt plug and lubricant and she said that she wished her husband was like myself so she could Pegg his ass and get to be in charge and have him take it from her boyfriend who is a bull read more

Simona P.

7 years ago

Excellent selections and staff a full array of products. The staff is very knowledgeable and helpful. They were able to teach me a lot of info about the various product that I simply didn't know. The store is easy to find. And it is clean and lots of open space to roam around 2 stories read more

Jenn

7 months ago

Not only is the staff incredibly friendly welcoming they don't make you feel uncomfortable they make you feel like you can ask any question and when you do ask a question they have all of the answers I have had a wonderful experience here thank you very much I will continue to return read more

Brigette S.

1 year ago

Great selection!! Go here and hit up Cali, she's super helpful, makes you feel comfortable, knows the products and has recommendations if you aren't sure!!! She reminded me why this love boutique was always one of the better in San Diego county!!! Don't dally go see CALI!!!! read more

Eddy D.

6 years ago

Went shopping here today looking for a wand for my gf. I want to give a shout out to Dekota for helping me pick something out. I ended up getting the Femmefun Ultra Wand. My gf absolutely loved it, so thanks again Dekota. I would definitely recommend this shop to anyone. read more

Emilie P.

2 years ago

the employee is super rude for no reason and gave attitude, super judgmental which makes no sense because you literally work at a sex store?? i wouldn't recommend this place he needs to be fired worst customer service ever! i would give it zero stars if i could read more

Jasmine W.

7 years ago

I've been coming to this shop since we moved to San Diego 2 years ago. Love it! Such a big shop with tons of variety and awesome selection! Books toys outfits and more. Love it and will keep coming back. Everyone here is always so helpful and informative. read more

Frank S.

1 year ago

Paris was a very professional and wonderful employee and made me want to come back here and shop and spend all my money. I highly recommend you giving her either a raise or making her manager because I wouldn't come in the store if it wasn't for her. read more

Jenna L.

8 years ago

So incredibly helpful! Everyone here knows what they are talking about and more than willing to spend as much time as you need to help you. AND THE STOCK. They pretty much have everything you could ever need! 100% the only sex shop I ever go to now. read more

jamie t.

2 years ago

It was our first time here and Cara was super friendly, helpful, and informative. She had a lot of great information since we were inexperienced and gave us helpful tips to make sure we stayed safe and comfortable throughout the learning process. read more

Laurie J.

8 years ago

Very clean. Staff is very helpful. Let me open some boxes to see the products. Very professional and great selection. Upstairs has the best variety of products. I would recommend it if you are looking for some ideas to spice things up! read more

David Q.

111

8 years ago

This place has everything you could want and more. Staff is very helpful and polite. The store is bigger than it looks. Take the time to explore and you might find something you like that you didn't even know existed. read more

Niki M.

10 years ago

Walked in for my first sex toy and Mike upstarts was very helpful in answering our questions and not making us feel uncomfortable and even tested out the ones we picked to make sure that they worked read more

Randi W.

10 years ago

Love boutique is a great place to shop. All staff are knowledgeable about the products. Super fun toys and they will unpackage the product so you can see how it works. Check out the love boutique! read more

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