Apparently, being arrogant and condescending is a prerequisite for becoming a gastroenterologist, or maybe I've just had a run of bad luck.
After a couple of bad experiences, I was hopeful that I would be able to work with Dr. Melitas. I was overdue for an upper endoscopy to manage an ongoing condition, so my primary care doctor gave me referral. Dr. Melitas is very young and he went to medical school in the Caribbean (not a good sign), but his two residencies were redeeming, so I decided to give him a chance.
He walked in and asked if I would mind if a couple of young, female nursing students sat in on the appointment, and I had no objection. I began to explain my concerns and symptoms, which I had researched extensively on the internet. Guess that was my first mistake-- gastroenterologists seem to prefer their patients to be uninformed, pliable, and obedient.
Dr. Melitas was unaware of the published studies I cited-- which pertained directly to my specific medical issues-- and he basically belittled, disagreed with, or mocked virtually everything I said during the entire visit. He laughed at the natural remedies I'd tried, which had given me significant relief, and he ridiculed my resistance to taking Proton Pump Inhibitors, which simply mask symptoms and can exacerbate the actual cause of gastrointestinal issues. PPIs also have objectionable side effects, like causing iron and B12 deficiencies, as well as osteoporosis. I struggle with anemia reduced bone density as it is.
I found myself wondering whether Dr. Melitas was always this pompous, or whether perhaps he was showing off his manly command of the room for the young ladies. The last straw was when he had the audacity to call me "Honey," which was an obvious attempt to feel superior and make me feel insignificant or less-than. It was unprofessional and rude, and it reeked of insecurity.
In summary, if you're looking for a gastroenterologist with an open mind, who listens to your concerns and wants to be a partner in your healthcare rather than a deity, you might want to look a little more. I'm going to. read more