This is very hard for me to say, but I just cannot get into Beth Shalom as is it is these days. I have been going here since the early 1990s, but I have never been a paid member, as I could never afford to be one. Therefore my perspective is that of a non-member. If I was a paying member, my experience would probably be very different.
I used to be the only woman that would daven at the shacharit minyan...for a number of years. The minyan experience was always very good. Everyone was very welcoming, and the older men that are there are always very warm and nurturing. I left when Rabbi Lew left...and the place has never felt the same for me. Part of this might be the "new" building, which I find to be ugly and cold. The main sanctuary is extremely inconvenient when crowded with its very narrow aisles and precarious seating.
The smaller spiritual space has non of the coziness of the old room, and the seating of hard wooden benches is really uncomfortable. These spaces just don't inspire kavanah, sorry!
I have been for a good number of Shabbats & events and always go to their High Holy Day Services. I find Rabbi Micah a very entertaining leader,and I think he did an excellent job on Rabbi Lew's funeral, which was a pretty devastating event for the community here.
However, that said, his High Holy Day sermons have left me feeling very confused. As someone with family in Israel, who is a supporter of Israel, I have had a difficult time with some of his sermons. As a result, every time I think of attending regularly again, I an not inspired to do so. I wish I could say that the congregants are warm...some,like Kenny, Marilyn, and the shacharit crew make the place worth going to. Others make you feel like you are not good enough to be in their presence. It's a bit of downer, I gotta say. The combination of wonky sermons, uninviting congregants, and cold spiritual space makes me hesitant to participate fully. I think if you have a young family with kids, and/or a lot of money, it might be a good place to hang out. If you want a deeper spiritual experience, this may not be the place for you. And if you have any suggestions, please let me know! Sadly, there are few options for Conservative Jews living in the Richmond. read more