Tari truly changed our marriage. After four years of marriage and two kids in two years, my husband and I found ourselves stuck in a rut. We loved each other deeply, but we felt more like roommates juggling work and parenting than partners. We had tried traditional couples therapy together and individually, but we just weren't making real progress. A friend suggested we try alternative therapy, which I had honestly never considered before. After some research, we found Tari -- and being able to schedule Sunday morning sessions with our busy lives made the decision even easier. From the moment we walked into his office, we realized this experience would be very different from traditional therapy in the best possible way. The environment is private, welcoming, and thoughtfully designed to create comfort and openness. Tari helped us communicate in a way that felt safe, non-judgmental, and focused on genuine connection -- no blame, no scorekeeping, just understanding. On a personal level, Tari helped me reconnect with my sensual side after years of pregnancy and breastfeeding, a part of myself I had truly lost. He helped both of us rediscover the closeness and intimacy we had before kids, and our relationship is stronger because of it. We are so grateful and highly recommend Tari to any couple looking to reconnect. Five stars without hesitation. read more

Working with Tari at Closeness Therapy has been one of the most impactful parts of my personal growth journey. He has a rare ability to truly see and understand both sides of a relationship, and his insight into the male perspective has helped me make sense of dynamics in my marriage in ways I couldn't access on my own. I have felt deeply supported, but never coddled -- Tari offers compassion alongside honest, necessary truths, and that balance is where real change happens. What sets him apart is how practical and usable his guidance is. I don't leave sessions with abstract ideas; I leave with tools, language, and perspectives I can actually apply in real life. His suggestions are thoughtful, grounded, and immediately helpful. One of my favorite parts of our work together lately has been our walking sessions. There's something powerful about moving physically while also working through emotional weight -- burning calories while burning through the things that have been weighing on me. It makes the process feel active, embodied, and forward-moving, just like the growth I've experienced. Tari has supported me through every layer of this journey with steadiness, insight, and care. If you're looking for a therapist who combines deep understanding, practical guidance, and a genuinely human approach, I cannot recommend him highly enough. read more

I could not thank Tari enough for his advice and patience. He took the time to meet my husband and I individual to get to know us personally before seeing us together. Since then, our meets with him were a delight. The only thing that had us stop going was due to a big move, but he was the perfect resource in my husband and I to grow stronger in our relationship. FULLY RECOMMEND. read more

My wife and I did two 2-hour intimacy coaching sessions with Tari over the course of October. We had been experiencing some distance that had crept in over the years, not from a lack of love but from a bit of complacency and routine. After some hard conversations, I realized that I needed to learn to better express my affection and make sure my wife truly felt desired. In our first session, we dug deeply into the emotional side of things. With Tari's calm guidance, we both opened up more honestly than we had in a long time. He helped us talk through feelings and dynamics we had not fully addressed on our own. In our second session, Tari introduced practical techniques to help me express myself more openly and reconnect with the confident, grounded masculine energy that my wife had been missing. I was genuinely surprised by how quickly Tari's approach helped us reconnect. We are more in tune and more affectionate, both emotionally and physically, than we have been in years. I am very pleased with the time, money, and energy we invested with Tari, and I would not hesitate to reach out again in the future, should we ever need a refresher. read more

Tari is a great coach, super happy I chose him! He was very helpful in not only identifying problems that were keeping distance between my husband and I but also I feel like one of his main strengths was helping my husband communicate/show his desire for me in a way that actually worked. Like channeling that sexy, masculine energy. He's able to tackle vulnerable conversations with respect and in a way where I felt comfortable. And he helped reignite hope and lit a new fire and desire in me when it was nearly dead after having intimacy issues for a long period. I'd definitely recommend him if you're having sexual struggles. This man knows what he's talking about and not just talk but he also coaches with demonstrations (on a mannequin lol) and gives tangible tips! read more

My husband and I came to Tari looking for ways to deepen our intimacy and build a more creative, connected relationship. For men, it can sometimes be hard to hear guidance from other men, but Tari's thoughtful and respectful approach made my husband feel comfortable enough to truly listen and open up. Even after just two sessions, we've already felt a real difference. We've learned so much, and our connection has grown in such meaningful ways. We're so grateful for Tari's insight, care, and guidance--thank you for helping us take these important steps forward! read more

Tari does a great job listening and responding to the needs my partner and I shared. He also helped put us at ease during the process.

I didn't know what I wanted or needed when I sought help from Tari at Closeness, only that things needed to change. Having faced sexual assault, the end of my marriage, and the overwhelming landscape of online dating, I arrived carrying trauma and uncertainty, with little confidence in my sexuality, my desires, or my power. Tari is a gentle, empathetic and giving soul. He listens attentively, observes carefully, and guides each session with a quiet confidence. His compassionate approach made me feel safe enough to be open and vulnerable. Together, we worked through difficult past traumas and explored how they shaped my sexual experiences and relationships. Most importantly, he helped me move forward with greater awareness, healing and strength. I connected with Tari from our first session; his genuine nature and playful sense of humor created space for rich and varied conversations. I felt stronger, reconnected with my desires and prepared for the next chapter to begin. Even while single, the benefits of my sessions with Tari were incredibly valuable. He is knowledgeable but not arrogant, always engaging with respect and authenticity. Tari very quickly picked up on my body language and helped me recognize how I present myself--both in daily life and in sexual contexts. With his guidance, I gained a deeper understanding of the nuances of sexual intimacy and expressing my own desires with a partner. If you're unsure where to turn for guidance on sex, intimacy, or relationships-- or simply wan to deepen your connection with a partner-- Tari at Closeness is the guy to see! read more

After 14 years of marriage, we wanted to spice things up and learn how to get the most out of our relationship. Tari has a unique understanding of how to build chemistry and talk collaboratively about any sensitive or taboo topic. His personalized coaching is really sort of magical- and perfect for couples like us who get trapped in the day-to-day of kids, work, chores, etc. It's easy to put this off but I recommend listenting to the Closeness podcast now and going to see Tari sooner rather than later, so you can get your groove back (which is so much more important than we realize!) read more

MARRIAGE SAVING! Tari is a relationship whisperer!! My husband and I showed up in crisis ready for divorce and left 3 sessions later with a better understanding of each other's needs than when we married 17 years ago! I cannot scream praises loud enough! Want to improve your sexual prowess or find healing for your relationship? Tari is your man! read more

My partner and I got a chance to work with Tari on a few sessions and discussed anything and everything between intimacy and general couple counseling. He was very informative and offered both perspectives from both sides that made us feel more connected. We definitely see ourselves coming back whenever we need some fine tuning. read more

I found Tari through his podcast and my wife and I decided to try out a session. Tari is able to read body language and pin point areas for improvement almost instantaneously. A true gift. We left with knowledge and skills we could apply in real time and have increased our intimacy. The reason for the two-star review is based on Tari's poor judgement in some areas. He exhibited unconscious bias and logical fallacies that left us feeling negatively about the experience and his intentions. read more

Before even meeting Tari we had a good feeling that his style of counseling would be very helpful. We were enjoying listening and learning from his podcast's but needed his expertise for our specific issues. Tari helped my wife and I find that missing spark. We are great friends and had great sex, but we were missing intimacy, passion, and the sparks. He helped us find the passion and desire we were looking for. I highly recommend him not for just intimacy issues but real-world advice and common-sense solutions. read more

My wife and I had a lot of trouble opening up and communicating. We tried many different techniques and talked to some other people but nothing really worked well. Finally we met Tari and have been able communicate well for probably the first time. Tari made us comfortable from the first meeting. It was a lot of him asking each of us questions to help him understand our relationship and our struggles, and then he gave us some really useful techniques and ideas to try that were catered specifically to our needs rather than some generic advice. Definitely a little awkward to "roleplay" some of the stuff in front of him (nothing graphic!) but having him give advice in real time goes a long way. After 4 or 5 sessions we've seen a big improvement in our relationship. read more

It is difficult to put into words the positive impact a few visits with Tari has had on my relationship. Our visits with Tari were empowering, enlightening, invigorating, and arousing. It takes a special person to be able to speak to both men and women about the intimate parts of their relationship, and Tari does it masterfully. He listens and he knows how to read people. Drawing on his experience and true passion for this work, he gives the right advice and instruction that is tailored to you. And the best part is that the advice he gives is multi-dimensional. It is applicable to several situations outside of what is discussed in a session. As the saying goes, "how you do one thing is how you do everything." The same is true when it comes to relationships and intimacy. The learning and growth that can occur in one session is awesome. Guarantee you will find yourself thinking about the session for weeks after it occurs. I know this topic is still a little taboo, but that's also why I'm sharing my experience. Do yourself a favor and just try it out. Be open and vulnerable. You won't regret it. read more

This review is updated for perspective clients not only looking for intimacy coaching but life coaching. AND because Yelp hid my review as a fake client. Hello everyone, I'm real. Being a military spouse for over five years, I knew there would be challenges. I prepared myself for my husband being away for 6+ months and relied more heavily on my family. What I didn't expect was how much military life could impact my marriage. My husband came home from deployments, changed, and witnessed things I could never imagine. Worst of all, he is lawfully unable to talk about it to keep the country safe. This led to many nights of few emails, calls, and video chats. I felt like I barely knew my partner or how to help him. In the meantime, I focused more of my time with my family. And... Wow! That was a train wreck. I found in times where I needed my family most, I was encouraged to toughen up, laugh it off, not to cry, and focus on my business/success. I was told, "This is what I signed up for, and I knew what I was getting into." Partially true, yes, but what I desperately needed was a hug, support, and solutions. Fast forward to filling out my detailed intake form. Much like this review :) I contacted Tari. Over several months, I reflected on my family, abusive past relationships, being feminine, what I needed in my relationship, how I show love or don't, my anxiety, and losing a family member. We went through it all, and it was challenging at times. I realized a lot of my habits in my relationship I learned from my family. Being the passionate personality I am, I brought in my family. My father, being a retired military and cop, is on edge, blunt and prickly with everyone. He's always looking for possibilities for danger and hates showing emotion. Tari was able to get my father to open up and laugh! This man barely shakes hands. Head nods only, please. I was blown away. Because of our session, my dad and I have been much closer and is visiting again for the third time this February. Tari's podcast was also insightful. I listened to his podcast in between sessions and noticed changes within myself. So much so when my husband returned, he was eager to get started and felt more comfortable in sharing his feelings. We are currently clients and working on goals with Tari in our marriage. Tari doesn't take sides and is able to mediate when wires are crossed. I never left a session feeling emotionally drained as I have with counselors. His office has a comfortable and welcoming feel v.s. a doctor setting stereotype you see in movies where there's a depressed client peering out the window. All of this to say Thank you, Tari. I look at myself now and see a different woman, someone I am happy with and love. read more

My husband and I had a one hour session with Tari. The gentle guidance he gave us felt very safe, intuitive, honest and authentic. His words and insight completely resonated with us. Tari's deep understanding of men and women as well as human interaction is astounding. We walked out of the session with a whole new energy between us. The time with Tari ignited a new portal of love, reflection, seeing, being seen, tenderness and much more. I felt so much healed within my heart and mind and I also experienced a sense of joy and ease that I had not felt in years. A part of me feels awakened and alive that I was not aware had wilted. I am humbled and in awe that a shift and transformation of this magnitude was possible in just one hour. I am excited and looking forward to see what happens in the future. Thank you Tari! read more

After so many years of feeling as though there was little hope of finding that s**ual spark with my best friend and husband, it felt like I'd been given a lifeline after we met with Tari and started to listen to his podcasts. Sometimes, while listening to the podcasts, it was as though he was in my mind, saying the things I'd never had the courage to say to my partner. In the in-person sessions, he was able to understand what each of us was trying to express and helped to translate. I think this is a rare gift he possesses. He hears you and understands you. As someone who has always been too timid to speak my mind regarding se**ual desires, this was the help I needed...someone who understood me and could help my husband understand me as well. My husband and I both felt extremely comfortable being vulnerable and honest with Tari. It gave us a safe space to share things that we'd been unable to express for years. Tari is genuine. He truly does want to help everyone in the room and it shows in his sessions. He's honest and straightforward with his advice. He's empathetic to what everyone is going through and feeling. His voice and demeanor are so soothing that you feel yourself opening up about s** without hesitation, even for someone shy like me. My husband and I would walk out of each session truly seeing each other. Our s** life has been altered in a way that I'm not fully able to condense down to a few words. I can say that there's depth to it, eagerness, and an openness to learn about each other that wasn't present before. Something major has shifted since seeing Tari and focusing in on our s** life in a positive and open way. For that, I'm so grateful to Tari. read more

I want to start by saying that Tari is very professional, since the moment you get there the session transforms into something more, you start putting things in practice from the start, body language, reading it, your eyes can say more than you can imagine and is something he can highlight to your partner. Tari also speaks Spanish which makes it easier for native speakers to express then selves since Spanish can have very unique words to describe and emotion. He shares so many tricks for guys with a dummy female human which makes it more interactive and visual, in my opinion this is a gem for couples. You can follow up and message him in case you forget an advice from your session and in addition to that he has an amazing podcast in apple podcast, I encourage everyone to listen! Don't think of the cost of the session, think on how much are you willing to invest to save your relationship or marriage, it's up to you to make your money worth and fallow all the tips and advices ! read more

Tari's coaching style is unlike anything I've ever experienced. I always leave feeling incredibly empowered (and ready to try out the homework!) Tari is compassionate, intuitive, and genuine, and really wants everyone to feel closer. My partner and I were struggling with intimacy and it began to spill into other areas of our marriage where we became increasingly frustrated with each other. We had been to several traditional marriage counselors who were not getting to the heart of the matter. Tari changed all of that within the first few minutes of our session - He asked both of us helpful questions, challenged us on our answers, and was a fair third party. He then moved our session from talking to interactive demos while moving at a pace we were both comfortable with. Tari understands what makes men and women tick and will read the energy and give you helpful, constructive feedback in real-time. I have learned so much about myself in this process and I am forever grateful. Thank you, Tari. read more

Tari was welcoming, attentive, and has great suggestions. He listened carefully and applied his wealth of Knowledge to our needs. He fostered open and creative communication. read more

Tari provides an environment where I feel safe to explore intimacy issues. He has an intuitive and gentle way of teaching new thought patterns especially when it comes to interacting with those closest to me. I feel stronger and more confident to handle challenges as they come my way but most of all- he has helped me find the missing piece that makes me whole. It's been such a transformative experience with him as my coach. If you're looking for real change, I recommend Tari! read more

Tari is the best! He transpires knowledge and understanding of intimacy and relationships, and openly, clearly, and intelligently provides sound advice. Highly recommend! read more

If you happen to be single, Tari can still be a great resource for you. His coaching sessions gave me a comfortable and safe space to talk about what was happening in my dating life, as well as what I thought I did wrong or right. Sometimes in dating, I tend to get nervous or anxious, and I wanted to have someone to talk to and process all of that with. I also wanted to be better when it came to moving things to the bedroom. That's another thing Tari has helped me with. He offers a ton of great resources both in person and online. One being the well known Closeness podcast, which I can't promote enough! It's a great way to learn how to be a better person and how to deeply connect with another human.   He has a lot of knowledge and experience that can help someone transform and grow through any stage of life. When I'm in a committed relationship, I plan to go back to Tari to get some tutorials on presence and intimate sexual practices that i can use together with my partner. read more

My husband and I have been married for a few years and had been struggling straight from the start with sex. We finally decided to see someone and found Tari. He basically gave us adult sex ed and taught us how to have better, more meaningful sex. He didn't just give us generic advice but tailored his advice to fit us as a couple. He has helped me work through my trust issues and helped cultivate an atmosphere of trust in our relationship. He's probably the nicest person you'll ever meet. Not judgmental at all and clearly cares about your relationship getting better. Thanks Tari! read more

Podcasts are very insightful and offer a different perspective for many to consider. In person Tari has an innate ability to make you feel extremely comfortable and vulnerable in a safe space. Most woman we have a natural hesitation to share our feelings with men, well at least I do but he made it so easy to open up and feel comfortable. He also is extremely honest, upfront, doesn't beat around the bush and tells you what you need to hear but with so much natural compassion. He also takes an extensive amount of time to get to know you and really caters to what you are really needing and looking to improve. I truly believe he really wants to help you and is really there to help you achieve whatever goals you are looking to accomplish through this process. And unlike other traditional therapists he keeps in regular communication with you, voluntarily does regular check ups and genuinely makes you feel like he cares for you as a person more than just a client. read more

Wow! So worth it! Tari is awesome with couples and helped us quickly feel comfortable and opened our eyes to new ways of thinking and communicating! read more

I wish I could give Tari more than 5 stars! I found the Closeness podcast awhile back (which I can't recommend enough), and I was so excited to discover he was located in San Diego. I had been researching intimacy coaching and premarital counseling for awhile, and found Tari to be a perfect fit. Seeking help for certain issues seemed intimating to me, but from the first communication Tari was so welcoming and approachable. His in person coaching has been a game changer! I've been to many therapists in my life but none of them have ever made me feel as comfortable and understood as Tari does. He has been able to dissect so many issues, anxieties and behaviors and then transform them with his exercises and expertise. My fiancé and I have been able to completely transform our relationship, intimacy and communication. Tari's coaching has been the best investment in myself + our relationship! read more

This podcast came to me at a great time of life. After leaving a 6 year relationship that became very unhealthy I was reintroduced to the dating world. Closeness topics are interesting and I find myself listening to several at a time. I usually come away with a new perspective or an ability to explain something that is important to me with my significant other. Thanks for your podcast Tari! read more

Tari is the real deal sex therapist. We've spent thousands of dollars on relationship and marital coaching. I can tell you without a doubt Tari has it right. The man can take complex, sensitive, and awkward topics and make each party comfortable discussing it. He has made me feel closer to my wife in so many ways in just a few short sessions. We've spent so much money on relationship counseling/ coaching in the past, but all we really needed was someone like Tari to spark the love again. He just has a way to him that is non judgmental and it allows everyone to speak their truth on topics that are awkward and uncomfortable. He can take everything you said and break it down to pieces and help you figure out why you are doing what to do are doing, and all in a non-judgmental way. If your having trouble in your relationship, give Tari a try, he is one of the best we've been to. One piece of advice, engage in the small exercises he asks you and your spouse to go through at his office. It helps you understand your spouse, and it helps Tari figure out / diagnose what's really going on. read more

I was desperate to find someone that could help my husband and I with our intimacy issues especially after the trust was broken when I found out he had an online affair. We started couples counseling with another therapist but the intimacy and communication issues were still not completely addressed. I found Tari and after reading his stellar reviews, I filled out the form online and he contacted me immediately the next morning and we scheduled our first session. Tari was warm and welcoming but also challenged my husband and I with questions that people are afraid to ask. He has a gift for reading people and he helped me understand my husband's POV and vice versa. I was surprised at how much my husband opened up and Tari helped with his analysis and challenging questions. We not only received helpful bedroom tips but also tips on how to be intimately close in a non-sexual way. Thank you Tari for sharing your wisdom with us! read more

Intimacy is something that is seldom talked about, especially among men, yet is a central part of most adult lives. It wasn't until recently that I realized how difficult communicating about intimacy was for me and how much resentment I built up as a result. I felt stuck in my 17 year relationship with me wife - my needs weren't being met and attempts to talk through it ended up in arguments. Rather than deal with the issue I tried to ignore it but slowly withdrew from the relationship to cope without even realizing. Anger and coldness toward my wife created a spiral of resentment we could both feel, but neither of us could stop.   I came across Closeness and was drawn in by the positive reviews. I'll admit, though, after looking at Tari's website I felt his services were a little (okay, a lot) outside of my comfort zone much less my wife's. I wasn't looking for a sex and intimacy coach - even though that was where we needed help - because I wasn't sure I'd ever feel comfortable talking about intimacy with a third party. I couldn't even talk about it with my wife! I found the Closeness podcast on the website, though, and everything started improving. I listened to 2-3 episodes of the podcast and found myself wanting to binge-listen to the rest. Tari touched on many emotions I felt but couldn't verbalize, voiced the female perspective in a way I understood, and did so without making me feel shame for being middle aged and not knowing this stuff.  After listening to all the episodes I felt like I already knew Tari, trusted him, and was sure he could help but needed to convince my wife so I put an episode on in the car to see how it would land. My wife said she understood more about the male perspective, and validated the female perspectives Tari shared, which I figured was a good sign. She was shocked how well Tari conveyed the female perspective in a way even she couldn't. After listening to a few more episodes together I floated the idea of going in for a session. Still a no, but I was happy with the progress from listening to the podcast. After a bad argument a few weeks later, though, she was willing to give it a try. Tari started our first session by asking if either of us were carrying any resentment. Tari guided the conversation in such a gentle, caring way that both of us were able to answer honestly and discuss without an argument. I think that situation sums up Tari's essence well - compassionate, intuitive, and experienced - and I honestly knew we were in good hands. Our first session was 90 minutes and was 60 minutes of talking and 30 minutes of interactive demos. Tari's style is unique from anything I've ever experienced, which is part of what makes him so effective. The talk portion of our session felt like an extension of his podcast but specific to our situation . He did a great job of tailoring the conversation to our comfort level and ensured we both felt cared for and safe in his office. The interactive coaching really takes things to the next level, though, and has been invaluable to my wife and I. It's one thing to talk about building chemistry, but it's another to do exercises and experience the energy it creates with your partner in real time. Prior to the appointment I was concerned the session would be a racy, graphic scene out of a porn movie but it wasn't tawdry at all. It was more focused on the emotion and connection behind intimacy, as opposed to the mechanics of the physical act, and that was exactly what we needed. I get the sense that Tari can go from mild to wild, but he did a great job of helping us move past our relationship barriers while simultaneously respecting both of our comfort levels. I'm not normally one to write reviews (especially reviews that broadcast my intimacy issues), but I'm so grateful to Tari for all his help that I wanted to help more people find him. If you're still reading, just book your appointment. Tari has helped my wife and I transform a relationship that was stuck for several years into one of love, empathy, and passion in only a few months. read more

Finding someone who got me and the work I want to do with myself, right off the bat, couldn't be more rare or appreciated once it's found. His empathy, and logic, allowed me to open up even more so that I feel safe to be myself and explore the areas that are uncomfortable where I aim to grow. The universe gave me exactly what I needed by leading me to Tari. read more

Tari helped talk us through whatever problems we encountered while living and working in a small space over the past year, and our relationship is stronger now than ever. We highly recommend him! read more

My wife and I highly, highly recommend working with Tari. He is a zen guru in translating the dynamics between men and women and the roles we play in good sex and marriage. In our many sessions with Tari he spent significant time understanding the challenges we were facing, demonstrated great empathy for both of us, and gave us practical, effective, and impactful tools that we use every day. Our work with him most likely saved our marriage and we will continue to work with him far into the future. read more

As a feminist in the Bay Area, Tari has really helped me better understand where men are coming from. His perspective on women's issues is sensitive, open, sympathetic, understanding, and LOVING - but without coddling. His work holds women's issues with such a balance to men's issues (and to ACTUALLY LIVING ON THIS PLANET WITH and LOVING men!), which has been really hard for me to find. Go Tari! I'm less afraid of interacting with men when I'm walking down the street, and I'm more confident interacting with the men in my communities... and my dad, for that matter! If that isn't social justice and using your privilege to help women, I don't know what is. Tari is powerful and strong, but also loving and sweet. I've been wanting to work with a male coach for a while, and Tari is the best I could have possibly imagined. He is SO RELATIONALLY SKILLED! I always feel so emotionally safe with him. I think working with Tari on literally anything would help me relate to men better, simply because he is so kind and thoughtful and he shows me what to look for in others. Calls with Tari helped me IMMEDIATELY. I'm 29 and had been experiencing ongoing trauma responses during sex for the better part of 9 years. After the FIRST SESSION, it DISSIPATED DOWN TO 5%, or even 0% OF WHAT IT WAS. He gave me suuper easy tips like, "not going home with someone unless I was at least 80% certain that I wanted to be physical with them" and "gently putting my hand in front of my lips if I started to receive a kiss I wasn't ready for." Common sense stuff my grandma had been trying to explain to me haha! He also helped me a lot with masturbation stuff. Pro-tip and a word of advice: Check out his podcast, "Closeness." It primed me for the work and I suspect had something to do with the sudden cessation of the panic responses. Also, feel free to message me personally on here if you have any follow up questions!!! read more

I invested in Tari's is coaching package as a gift to myself and my wife as we were nearing our anniversary. When we met with Tari for the first time, we were a bit anxious and uncertain of what he would ask and how we would feel. Within the first five minutes we were put at ease and could tell that Tari was a classy, heart-centered individual who has a passion for helping couple's experience closeness and connection at the highest level. My wife and I began to share stories of how we met, our history of ups and downs and our questions. Tari was a gentleman and guided the conversation into areas that we could explore safely while still touching on topics that we otherwise would never have had the boldness to do by ourselves. I have experienced many more coaching sessions since then and will continue to do so as I am seeing amazing results in my marriage. Now my wife and I continue to discover things about each other that we've never known, even after years of marriage and multiple children. I am finding that we are getting that spark back into our marriage that we had before we had children. I would highly recommend anyone reach out to Tari for an open, candid conversation to see how they can improve their Closeness connection within their current relationship or to ready themselves for an emotional connection when they welcome in their next romantic relationship. read more

Tari has a keen eye for identifying interesting aspects of a relationship that traditional marriage counselors aren't looking for. I think he's very effective at moving the dial, either direction it needs to go, quickly. read more

I went in a little skeptical thinking that this coaching may or may not work. But almost instantly I started noticing a huge shift between the energy between my fiancé and myself. Tari made our experience super comfortable and relaxing. Making it easy to ask any question and to say anything no matter how personal it was. He knew exactly what to ask and found solutions immediately. I've even found out new things about my fiance that I didn't know before. I highly recommend Tari to save your relationship or just to even make it even stronger. read more

Tari's ability to understand women, intimacy, relationship issues, arousal and attraction is unparalleled. But what's more important than the knowing, is the way he shares his knowledge and gifts with his clients. It's already an extremely vulnerable position for a man (or woman) to come in for intimacy coaching or sexual guidance with their partner. The idea of another person explaining, demonstrating or role playing situations has the potential to be scary or trigger embarrassment. But Tari is able to coach in such a classy and tasteful manner, doing everything with full consent from both parties and making the whole process enjoyable for everyone. He's got an uncanny gift to "read the room" and always makes sure we are comfortable, and even having fun! He doesn't talk down to his clients or exhibit any sign of superiority, and this makes everyone feel safe and want to open up. I'm really thankful for the coaching I've received from Tari over the years and hope this helps others feel safe to come in for coaching. read more