My son went here for some time, but we had to stop abruptly in September, which was as unfortunate and unexpected for us, as it was our son.
Becky, the owner, completely lost interest after she moved from her previous home. I had virtually no qualms prior to the move, but afterwards the routine stopped, the communication went downhill and art projects were out the window.
Both homes that our son was in her care with are rentals. She has made plenty of updates to the new home, but at the expense that the workers are there during business hours. We had found strange men smoking outside in front of the garage, coming in and out of the side gate while children were playing; and I'm not sure if it was her new boyfriend or a worker that started hanging around in the house fixing things up - I was never formally introduced. When I questioned who these men were, I was given nonchalant responses, which left me feeling uneasy.
Becky does not like to communicate via phone unless it is text, and she never responds to email. From day one she was asking me to text her when I would be leaving my house, even though I would drop off around the same time each day, and communicate this the night prior. And then she would text me back while I was driving to ask if she had time to shower. We arrived numerous times at her home with the house dark and no one around. After several minutes of my son asking where everyone is, she would come downstairs with a towel on her head and in a bathrobe, explaining how she thought she had enough time to shower. I was late for work on these occasions.
At pick up, she began texting DAILY to either myself or my partner, asking when we would be there - even though we had the same schedules every day and week. On top of this, while all we needed was someone from 7am-6pm and she originally said she would be flexible, it became unreasonable as each month she complained about the untimeliness of our pick up even though it was discussed in advance with no concerns.
Becky seemed to increasingly need more personal time as she entered a new relationship, despite the hired help she calls "teachers." It's no wonder that the "teachers" she had when we first had our son attending her daycare, turned over quickly, and abruptly without notice. When she finally did find two stable "teachers," she quickly had them move in to her mother in law home on the property.
One time I asked if any of her "teachers" would be willing to watch our son one evening. This went south as she flaked on us, and when Becky caught wind through this "teacher," outright called me a liar. The "teacher" of course, was not seen but once since she flaked on us. I later found out that this teacher was "afraid" of me.
Becky constantly pried about me and my partners relationship, and once indulged in telling me a story of how her ex husband was a drug addict and abandoned her and her kids, and how he is remarried now and she catches him essentially "stalking" her at times. I had begun searching for another care provider at that time because this concerned me and the safety of my child in the event that something could happen.
Then one day after getting fed up with constant daily texts at work stressing me out, I addressed my concerns about texting with Becky and asked that she not contact us during work hours unless it is an emergency, and that we would communicate the night prior if any changes in our schedule arise. She left me two voicemails, and several texts ranging in a 3 hour span. After receiving her last text at 830pm when I was going to bed, I responded asking her not to contact me so late unless it is an emergency, and bottom line not to text at work unless the same. She responded that I was disrespectful and rude.
When my partner dropped off the next morning, there were no problems. When I picked up, Becky blew up on me, screaming at me in front of the children in her care that I had to listen to her, grabbed my arm and wouldn't let me leave, and was yelling at me what a bad parent I am and making assumptions about my partner's and my relationship with my son, and accusing my partner that he could leave at any moment and how our son needed love and didn't receive enough love at home, etc. When I finally left, she followed me out the front door, leaving the children in the house alone, to continue verbally harassing me. We cancelled our check that night and I took two weeks off work to stay with my son until we found new care, jeopardizing my job.
In addition, my son had frequently started saying strange things at home, like that Daddy didn't love mommy and mommy hated daddy. Since he stopped going, those phrases stopped. Becky often talked about the love he needed, but seemed to lack in other necessary care giving skills like safety, communication, sharing, and life skills.
I have reported Becky to DSHS. What she did was unprofessional and unstable, as well as the many other illegal actions. But my text is limited. read more