Bobby Hassam pressured me to book appointments with him even though I refused. And he touched me inappropriately at least 2 times.
At first he seemed like a nice guy but I always felt that he was pushy, automatically scheduling me in advance for the next 2-3 months even though I told him I might be busy. Also he seemed kinda nosy and invasive about my personal life. But I think it's part of his character to want to be friends with almost everybody including his clients. But one incident kinda pissed me off. A few months ago I took a break from facebook and deactivated my account. He somehow realized right alway that my account was deactivated and he kept trying to call on fb messenger. I was busy at work so I couldn't answer. He found my other account and immediately sent a friend request and some messages which I later found in message requests. He does not have my number which is why he messages on fb but the overall incident still bothered me since I am mostly a private person and that other account was meant to be only for a small circle of friends.
Also he touched my private area about 3 times. He would slip his fingers underneath my thong/undies and rub very close to my crotch..he would do this while I am face up. Therefore he can clearly see me looking uncomfortable and giving him that wtf look. I didn't say anything because he would just do it for a few seconds and I always gave him the benefit of the doubt it was accidental (yeah I know that after 2 times it was definitely not an accident, and I'm sure he knew what he was doing because he would laugh/look amused from that wtf look I was giving him).
I also felt he was money-hungry. He would try to sell me products even though I told him I wasn't interested. The last time I saw him, he was trying to sell his last water tumbler to me. I told him I didn't want it. But he still took it out of his backpack, plopped it onto my table and told me it would be inclusive with the cost of the next session...
A few weeks later, I decided to get rid of him. I had to get a friend to help me type out that his services were no longer needed (I really suck at confronting people which was why I had to get someone to type it out for me while I waited anxiously in a different room. I was nervous about the response I would.) I've been wanting to rid of him for a while but I couldn't because of guilt. He would act like he was a best friend to me. He would constantly say that he worries or cares about me and how he's happy that we are friends. He would praise that I am such a loyal customer (even though he's the one automatically scheduling me), that my loyalty is appreciated especially in times of covid, all of which made me felt bad for doing what I had to do.
His response was that he was sorry to see me go and to send him the $20 for the water tumbler (that he pulled out and set on my table even though I said I didn't want it It's still in the box and collecting dust read more