I've held back from making this post for a while -- hoping Bacot Autism School would eventually offer some kind of explanation. But after countless emails with no response, including a simple request to purchase my own child's school photos, this was the icing on the cake.
Parents deserve to know the truth.
When my son was accepted into Bacot Autism School, I was genuinely so excited. I even moved closer to the school so his mornings would be easier and I could be more involved. I truly believed this would be the right environment for him.
He only attended for three weeks. The tuition through Step Up is about $13,000, but Step Up only covers around $10,000, leaving families to pay $180/month -- which I already made two full payments for.
During that time:
* One week there was no school
* One week he was home sick
* And every day in Carline, I asked how he was doing.
Every day I was told:
"He had a good day," or "He had a few hiccups but recovered well."
Then suddenly, I got a call from the Executive Director.
When I asked multiple times what had happened, she simply said:
"I'm not sure and can't comment."
To this day, I've received no explanation for why my son was suddenly dismissed -- or why they accepted payment knowing they would shut the door on him weeks later.
The school board said their hands are tied because Bacot is a private school -- but even they agreed the situation is wrong and doesn't make sense. They've even suggested other contacts I could reach out to for answers, which says a lot in itself.
The Department of Education also conducted an hour-long interview with my son and confirmed that he is a well-mannered, well-behaved child. They couldn't understand what Bacot claimed had happened and said he doesn't need the level of services Bacot described.
After the call, I had to email multiple times just to retrieve his school supplies -- which were eventually left outside the front door with no communication or apology. I also requested to purchase his school photos multiple times, and every email has been ignored.
When enrolling him in his new school, I met other parents who also came from Bacot -- many sharing their own serious concerns about how their children were treated.
Even during my initial tour of Bacot, I saw a child lying on the floor, wrapped in a blanket, clearly having a hard day. The teacher nearby looked visibly frustrated, not comforting. I brushed it off at the time, but now I wish I had trusted that gut feeling.
I still deserve an explanation -- every parent would.
How can a school take thousands of dollars, remove a child in three weeks, and never explain why?
Even a typical teenager takes longer than three weeks to adjust to a new school.
My son spent two years in public school with zero issues, and now he's in a new school where he's thriving. That alone says everything.
Parents -- please do your research, trust your instincts, and ask questions. Your child deserves patience, understanding, and compassion -- not silence. read more